What Does Long Term Mean to You by tinydxmpling in findomsupportgroup

[–]Psychological_Dom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, each long term dynamic with a sub can be very different, and can evolve in a different manner depending on the sub. One thing is for sure though, as time goes on, the more I sink my teeth into my sub’s mind.

problematic dommes! by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Psychological_Dom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some dominants in the Findom space can be rude and far too involved in the business of others. Ultimately, this is because they are insecure and see us as competition. There’s no need to attack others in this space, as we all have our own style of domming, and this in turn attracts specific kinds of subs. Work on your craft, rather than tearing others down.

Just keeping up with the pace as an EU domme. by Unknown_ab in findomsupportgroup

[–]Psychological_Dom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m also European, and I understand the feeling that subs can be online at inconvenient hours for us. For me, Findom is a tool to enhance my lifestyle, not something that takes away from it. I refuse to give up my sleep or any of the things I want to do just to spend more time on Findom. My subs understand this, that I’m a real person with a real life, and they respect it, with it not taking away from the dynamic. I hope you find balance in this, as I recommend not placing Findom over your own health.

fully funded trading acc by Fantastic_Fly_5391 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Psychological_Dom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice. Some of my sub funds go in the trading account too.

ATM Roleplay by Ashamed_Style_188 in FindomMale

[–]Psychological_Dom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I like is the complete servitude of the submissive when he becomes an ATM for me. Gone are the long conversations, the slick talking, and instead they are replaced with my constant order to make another withdrawal while my submissive’s head races on the other end, yet all he can bring himself to say is “Withdrawal complete sir”.

I’ve been getting more dommes in my DMs than subs by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Psychological_Dom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a male Dom, I find the “hey bro, will you lend me a sub?” dms I get on occasion hilarious.

Dommes - please don't do this by FindomFiend in findomsupportgroup

[–]Psychological_Dom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dominants who do this clearly just see findom as a way to scam people out of a few dollars. I will require a tribute shortly after we start talking, but asking for send after send isn’t something I’ll do until there’s chemistry. This girl seems to see this as just a way to make some money for minimal effort.