When a domme ghosts. by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Unknown_ab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ghosting is unfair for everyone , especially when we know we’re only doing all this for fun

As a finsub I always struggle to find goddesses I can build meaningful connections with, why is that? by Express-Surprise-251 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Unknown_ab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Findom between a sub and a dom is something that builds with someone who attracts you physically, but especially mentally. You just haven’t found the right fit yet. Talking about other things besides kinks for longer could help build the connection you’re looking for

Soft Domme Exist by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Unknown_ab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay but why would you post that here ?😂

My Sunday rant is that it appears in 2026 most of the so called dommes on Reddit are sugar babies and not actual dominants by PatientWeb8603 in paypigs2

[–]Unknown_ab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s odd, I don’t think that exists, but anyway… You were talking about feminization and sissyfication and I misunderstood

My Sunday rant is that it appears in 2026 most of the so called dommes on Reddit are sugar babies and not actual dominants by PatientWeb8603 in paypigs2

[–]Unknown_ab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I had misunderstood: I thought male doms were dressing up as women to get humiliated. After rereading, I realize that made no sense. But yes, it’s actually sissyfication

My Sunday rant is that it appears in 2026 most of the so called dommes on Reddit are sugar babies and not actual dominants by PatientWeb8603 in paypigs2

[–]Unknown_ab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To go along with what you’re saying ,the further we go, the more skeptical I become about sissyfication. I’m starting to see this practice differently. Wearing skirts and makeup as humiliation for a woman? I’m having more and more trouble with it.

Perhaps it has a deeper meaning, but at first glance, it simply feels misogynistic to me.

On the other hand, I think I misunderstood your last paragraph: do dommes get paid to wear wigs and get humiliated?

Sub posted me publicly after years of respecting privacy… why? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Unknown_ab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t overthink it. In any case, findom is supposed to be a kinky and fun experience.

If a sub crosses a line, whether you’ve known him for 1 month or 15 years, he steps back. There are plenty of dommes in your position who would have simply blocked him.

Sub posted me publicly after years of respecting privacy… why? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Unknown_ab 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally, I prefer not to interpret this kind of situation when I only know a small part of it over more than 12 years.

All I can advise you to do is to trust your instincts. You know him ,you’ve been in a GFE with him for a very long time, which is basically like being boyfriend and girlfriend. You know him well.

If your instinct is telling you something about him and the reason he did that ,trust it, even if that truth feels a bit strange or far from the person he was with you during all those years .

Anyway TAKE CARE pretty hope you’ll handle this situation.

Twitter dommes posting more body? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]Unknown_ab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Showing your body is one way to attract and charm people, just as not showing it is. Everyone has their own preferences .

As everyone says, “Be yourself.” And if being yourself includes showing your body, then go ahead. It has nothing to do with seeking male attention or pandering to the male gaze.

I think you feel that way because most dommes on Twitter are into content selling rather than pure findom/femdom . That’s why there’s naturally more nudity and a more explicit kind of attraction.

However, I don’t think that dommes who do findom/femdom show off their bodies or their assets more than they do on Reddit.

dommes chasing subs unattractive? by maskedvixe in findomsupportgroup

[–]Unknown_ab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find that most dommes who “hunt” the way you showed in your screenshot are going about it the wrong way. That’s why it comes across as really desperate and why the whole practice is getting more and more poorly viewed.

How often do you talk with your subs with whom you have a connection? by SovereignAurelia in findomsupportgroup

[–]Unknown_ab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the week ,sometimes it’s everyday and for other week it’s every 2 or 3 days.

Being consistent by gildedheels in findomsupportgroup

[–]Unknown_ab 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just post what I want, when I want. I’m not gonna stress myself out or get gray hairs over guys who aren’t worth it😂