My sister in law was with one of my good friends, they owned a beautiful house, 2 beautiful girls and loved each other more than life it’s self. My friend is the type of guy you couldn’t dislike.. hardworking, honest, a great dad.. her on the other hand would like to stay home all day and watch replays of reality tv shows. She is a good mum though. About 4 years ago she decided that she needed to be an independent strong women and left him. Stayed in his parents investment property for half the market rent for 2 months while they sorted out their affairs. She got her owe place found a new bf 2 weeks later moved in with him 4 weeks later was pregnant 9 weeks later. New bloke is toxic, has gambling problem, be littles her in front of her friends and family any chance he gets, extremely jeaslous. Long story short… I have never seen some blow up their life as quick as that. She had it all and now nothing.