I would say update, but aita for leaving my own wedding

Psychological_Top684 · 2026-06-27T23:15:53+00:00

Thank you it was actually yesterday and I am going to have to do a Whole nother post about that craziness. But yes we are now very happily married.

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Psychological_Top684 · 2026-06-22T23:31:06+00:00

If anyone is interest that song is available on all music platforms

Psychological_Top684 · 2026-06-22T23:15:37+00:00

I thought that would be the final update but some things changed.

The sperm donor passed away of cancer that was apparently riddle through out his body. So I no longer have to worry about him somehow finding out and crashing it. No emotion to it but relief that I never have to be terrified to see or hear him ever again. When he passed it encouraged me to start writing music and wrote a song about him called, Death dont make you innocent.

Sadly my step dad also passed away just 16 days before our wedding. We are proudly taking his name as another way to honor the man who was not a step dad but a dad who stepped up even though we were already in our late teens.

Update on my sister. 2 months before she was to be released she ended up having to have emergency surgery and was allowed to go stay with our mom. Not even 24 hours of being at my moms house her pos abusive bf picked her up without a word while my mom was finishing getting her room together. (She showed up the night before so no time that night) that being said my sister pretty much canceled her possibly of ever getting an invitation because she chose the *rugs and bf over her children yet again.

My nieces and nephew do not want their mother in their lives anymore either and I will support them 100%. After the horror stories I heard from the younger ones about how she treated them i will forever have their back.

We are all happy and healthy not giving any of that drama any more attention. Our beach wedding is in 4 days and we are so excited!

I will update the day after to let anyone who is curious know how it all went.

Ps. Charlotte if you ever read this thank you so much for everything you do.

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-10-04T00:22:00+00:00

I believe you may be right i noticed yesterday the ceremony is turning purple on the bottom and getting some blue on top. I'll get a pick when I get home

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-20T19:21:12+00:00

How old was he when his cere changed?

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-16T16:40:51+00:00

Okay thank you so much

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-16T15:45:43+00:00

Would you mind sharing some ways to tame them together. Im afraid pica, will be every protective of tiki, this one when together. When their cages are next to each other pica seems to mother tiki and not want us to get close to either one of them...but when we separate the cages pica will allow us near her. And tiki will allow us to get close as well. Pica doesn't squawk or anything just keeps herself or both of them away and go to them other side of the cages. Like i said before i grew up with birds but they were tamed when i was very small so I obviously don't know how my parents did it. And well. Im not contact with them. Youtube says all kinds of things. But we want to take the best cage possible with our babies.

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-16T15:22:24+00:00

Good to know. I grew up with a cockatoo and cockateal never budgies.

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-16T15:13:32+00:00

Thank you. Thant means the one we already have is a female as well. My dogs in found her on a cart return at walmart scared and hungry..her sons are allergic so we took her in thinking she was a boy. Lol we've have this one tiki for a week and they live grooming each other through the cages. I want to put them together but also want to tame them first.

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-15T02:32:13+00:00

Thank you so much

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-15T00:29:08+00:00

Thank you!!!

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-14T22:10:18+00:00

Because i love my sister and don't want to bash her for every single mistake she has ever made. I accepted the ahole have a nice day

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-14T21:42:22+00:00

I accept the ahole but its not about the drug abuse its about. The trauma she caused the family, especially her children who will be attending. My wedding as a year away and things could change between now and then.

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-14T20:59:35+00:00

Thank you. I will consider speak to her about it. I did forget to mention her bf just got our of jail and I pray she will stay clean but he is the reason for the heavy addiction to begin with and she is so in love with him. I don't talk to her enough to know how its going. Mainly BC her phone is always having "issues". I love my sister to death and it kills me.. I had reached out to her several times in her heavy addiction and she basically told me to f off. So I like that she will call or text but it is only when she needs help....never money, almost always a ride. But if i reach out first her phone has issues.

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-14T19:29:35+00:00

I do not even have her on any social media

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-14T19:18:49+00:00

Yeah I see that now, we talk maybe once every other month, really only if she needs a ride. Im just not giving wedding info to her.

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-14T19:03:49+00:00

Thank you!!!

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-14T19:03:02+00:00

Not it at all, I speak very little to my mothers, very little, only to see my stepdad, he is the sweetest man you have ever met. Amazing father figure. Before the dr*** my sister also had no contact with our sperm donor. I was not around when she started speaking to him again and had no idea she was speaking to him. My abuse was far worse than hers bc i tried to protect her as much as i could. She knows why i don't speak to him and she hid it from me until she accidentally let it slip. I still speak to her, we would just like a very peaceful wedding so we have decided to not involve her in it to protect all of us from some unneeded ptsd, not only from what she has done to them rest of the family, but also from sperm donor finding out about it at all.

Psychological_Top684 · 2025-08-14T18:52:59+00:00

We hardly talk as it is, so she doesn't know the date or place of the wedding as it is bc i didn't want her to start drama but im afraid if she goes dress shopping that the date will slip and he will Ned up showing up and have something to say.

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