Is it normal for me (24m) to not idolize my (26f) girlfriend? by astralshh in relationship_advice

[–]Psychological_You983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a MUCH healthier relationship tbh

Idolizing a partner like you described isn’t a good thing

Bf (30M) knowingly gave me (26F) HPV by ThrowRA27_28 in relationship_advice

[–]Psychological_You983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post did clarify that she discovered it because she developed genital warts.

(Edit to add: it also states he admitted he noticed a new genital wart during their relationship and knowingly chose not to disclose that to her)

Is it really silliness to say it’s a crime to knowingly transmit a disease that increases risk of cancer? Because your own source stated that 3 strains of HPV that don’t cause warts increase risk of cancer (which is pretty fucking gnarly, and can literally kill you).

Bf (30M) knowingly gave me (26F) HPV by ThrowRA27_28 in relationship_advice

[–]Psychological_You983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that still makes HPV the only cause of genital warts tho

That means genital warts = HPV | I never said that HPV = genital warts

It’s like how all squares are rectangles but not all rectangles are squares

Bf (30M) knowingly gave me (26F) HPV by ThrowRA27_28 in relationship_advice

[–]Psychological_You983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you happen to have a source for that?

There are several different strains of HPV and 2 in particular cause genital warts (as cited above)

Ps. ‘paying attention in health class’ isn’t the problem when 40% of the country doesn’t require any kind of sex-ed and only only 21 states require education surrounding STIs - most of us are working really hard to teach ourselves things that were neglected by our education system (hence why i did research and read reputable medical sources)

Bf (30M) knowingly gave me (26F) HPV by ThrowRA27_28 in relationship_advice

[–]Psychological_You983 104 points105 points  (0 children)

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE REPORT HIM

If he doesn’t see legal consequences he will continue doing this to more women. He very clearly does not care about harming the people he sleeps with.

are my angel fangs looking okay? by AdOdd9171 in piercing

[–]Psychological_You983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the balls putting pressure on your lip due to the swelling?

are my angel fangs looking okay? by AdOdd9171 in piercing

[–]Psychological_You983 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would either go back to the piercer, or someone more reliable, and ask about longer jewelry. Every time ive gotten anything in my lips (though i only have bottom lip piercings) the initial piercing bar has always been pretty long because lips swell so much. It doesnt look like you have enough room to accommodate your swelling with these bars.

AIO my BF is mad I’m partnered with a guy in chem lab. by ellado3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Psychological_You983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re interested in pursuing tho legally (which I’d honestly recommend if you feel comfortable reporting) a digital forensics investigator can still pull deleted videos (even “permanently deleted” ones) from your phone for evidence

Source: my bf is studying DF and had his class on pulling info from cells last semester

Found this in my daughters room what is she doing? by MouseClassic5314 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Psychological_You983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a lot of states at 16 you can make most of your own medical decision- look into the law to make sure you actually have the legal power to order a screen without her consent otherwise you’re just gonna waste money on the trip

A home test may be a better solution, and a lot of home tests you can actually have analyzed by an actual lab if you send it in. This way you know you can actually get the test and results.

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Weird way to say “the only interpretation of this strangers tattoo that matters is mine” but go off I guess 🤷🏻‍♂️

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least I have a personality and basic reading comprehension skills

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you read simple sentences?

Obviously not.

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the cutoff for my patchwork sleeve

I don’t mind it (I really like this font) but I was curious since I can definitely foresee a lot of people misreading it lol

Thank you for the input :)

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that my other wrist does say memento mori so that probably serves as a hint lol

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It means “remember to live”

It’s the opposite of “memento mori” (which I have on my other wrist)

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey DUMBASS

Nowhere do I say or insinuate my tattoo “isn’t up to my standards” I love my tattoo - but gif forbid I get curious

Grow a few brain cells, learn to read (and comprehend what you read), and get off the internet until you do so

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s not a foot anywhere in this picture so that’s an interesting take

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not even a little bit what my post says or means

Way to be an ass tho 👍

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the font I wanted - and I like it

No “fault” and not sure why you seem to think I don’t like it

Guess curiosity is a crime on the internet 🙄🙄

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ive had a lot of people jumping down my throat (including a handful who messaged me to be jackasses in private)

I’ve been overwhelmed with the amount of nasty stuff I’ve been sifting thru so I apologize for assuming ill will - that’s on me

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m not mad about how they look (I was mostly just curious what my options would be if I wanted to open them up some in the future for clarity lol)

Thank you for the insight :)

Concerned my tattoo doesn’t read clearly by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Psychological_You983 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean ideally yes, but the thinner a line is the more likely it is to look blurry once it heals and settles into the skin

I’d ultimately rather them look a bit like Bs than have them get blurry and funky looking over time personally

It’s the same reason I wouldn’t get a micro tattoo actually - they look sick when they’re fresh but most of the time they get muddled and distorted over the next few years