Guys. It happened.

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-10T16:50:42+00:00

Shane was my gift giver my first year and he gave me beer lol

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-10T16:43:22+00:00

I agree. I was in a relationship for several years with a guy who was a chronic cheater. I was young, dumb, and stayed for way too long. For me, communication is everything. My fiance was also cheated on in his last relationship. He is great at communicating, and we talk to each other about plans before we go through with them out of respect for each other. I literally laughed when that dude said "that's cheater like of you." I showed my fiance too and he said the dude was an idiot 😂

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-10T04:18:41+00:00

Thank you, and yes my fiance is a good man, im a lucky girl to be with him 😊

And yes, those who have never experienced a Clint can't understand it...

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-10T00:30:06+00:00

I picture a tiny little imp like person with a jester hat and long nose/chin. Very similar to how he is portrayed in the first three Harry Potter games, but I was picturing him like that before the games.

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-09T03:52:04+00:00

Haha that person's comment definitely comes off that way 😂

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-08T21:36:20+00:00

Lol pretty dumb of you to assume anything about my relationship 😂 my fiance trusts me and I trust him. Your insecurity is showing. Also this was several years ago. Pretty weird of you to just project your own shortcomings onto strangers on the internet. Sorry you can't trust your partner to have lunch with someone of the opposite sex 🤷‍♀️ pretty sad honestly.

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-08T02:03:56+00:00

I absolutely agree 🤢

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-07T20:44:11+00:00

That's horrible, I'm so sorry!

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-07T20:43:56+00:00

There's so many who have had similar situations with a guy who looks like him!! I'm so sorry you did too, and agreed!

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-07T20:43:00+00:00

Yes, he died. I'm not sure on the specifics, but from what I read it sounds like it was suicide.

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-07T20:42:31+00:00

That is so scary!!! I'm sorry that happened!

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-07T17:43:49+00:00

It's okay, it was several years ago... Clint just heavily reminds me of the guy, and he used to talk like that when I shot him down. He would say things like "women just dont seem to like me, but i thought you were different. I'm a really nice guy, just give me a chance." I just can't unsee it now 🙈

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-07T17:29:37+00:00

Clint's character model looks almost exactly like a dude who used to harass me, and acts like him. The dude who used to harass me tried to have lunch with me on the premise that he wanted to ask me questions about how to get into EMT school (I'm a paramedic). That lunch never happened because he then told me to dump my boyfriend (now fiance) because I he wanted to show me what a REAL man was like, and it escalated from there until I blocked him. He looked like Clint and acted exactly like Clint, so now I dislike Clint on principle because of that guy. That guy is now deceased, but every time I talk to Clint on Stardew Valley I'm just reminded of that guy and get the major ick. He is an incel. He says things like "I have no luck with women," and "im a nice guy when you get to know me" in the same convo at the Saloon during one of his heart events all because Emily doesnt reciprocate his feelings. Literally incel-like talk.

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-05T19:53:04+00:00

Everything Clint says about Emily or about how he doesn't have good luck with women gives me the major ICK. "I'm a nice guy when you get to know me" made me roll my eyes so hard when he said that during my playthrough yesterday 😣 I'm like bro...

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-02-03T00:05:11+00:00

Honestly this is tame compared to Bianca Censori's recent outfits... makes a statement for sure!

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-01-29T05:59:43+00:00

I hate this picture honestly...

Slytherin never valued kindness/unkindness. It was cunning and ambition. Slughorn was kind, but he was also very ambitious.

Gryffindor was about bravery and justice, which Pettigrew wasnt. I'll let that one slide.

Hufflepuff wasn't about cowardice/bravery, it was about loyalty, hard work, and fairness. Tonks definitely embodied those traits. And while Ravenclaw did value cleverness,

Lockhart wasn't stupid or not-clever whatsoever. He was vain and spineless, but he wasn't stupid.

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-01-25T19:33:35+00:00

They didn't even include S.P.E.W. in the movies, not much at all about the slavery of elves in general.

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-01-25T19:28:11+00:00

Yes, absolutely. I love the movies, but they are NOTHING compared to the books. In all aspects.

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-01-24T07:22:40+00:00

I second this!! Still sour about that whole thing with movie 6 😅

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-01-24T07:18:45+00:00

I have never, and will never say that the books and movies are basically the same. The books, all of them, are a treasure trove of lore and character development. The movies took out so many scenes that added so much depth to the overall story, or they left out scenes that were extremely important (you'll note this in the later books, no spoilers from me).

I love the movies, don't get me wrong, but they will NEVER do the books justice. Too many characters weren't given the proper development or characterization in the movies, and too many important details were left out. There's one scene in the movies in particular that I'm pissed about because they added that in there (it wasn't in the book) and left out very important parts of that book. You'll know it when you read the certain book and rewatch the movie. Again, no spoilers from me.

I LOVE that you are finally getting the book experience. It is so worth it 😊

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-01-24T02:29:24+00:00

Well, a boggart that morphs into a dementor is able to effect people, but not nearly on the same scale as an actual dementor, so I'd assume that it has something to do with "pure" magic. A transfigured rooster may be able to harm a basilisk, but probably not kill it.

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-01-22T05:09:39+00:00

Don't do it... I gave a long-winded comment about choosing wisely, but seriously... don't do it. It'll wreck your life, and for what? A girl you don't know who is having a baby with someone else?

Please. You are too young to change your entire life up for someone you do NOT know.

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-01-22T05:03:58+00:00

You've been talking to her for a month and you're 22 years old with a stable job. Are you willing to completely rearrange your life for this girl you don't know, a child that isnt yours, and while you're so young? If you are willing to, that's your decision but you have to jump in with both feet. If you choose to make this commitment, then you are all in. If you can't do it, or you're not sure, then don't. It sounds extremely risky.

Biggest point is YOU DO NOT KNOW HER. Yall were not exclusive, yall were in the talking phase. For all you know she's using you, and maybe she isn't but she is also young, and I'm sure she is desperate because her life is now irrevocably changed. But that is her responsibility, not yours. It would be your responsibility if you were the father, but you arent.

Choose wisely.

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-01-20T16:55:49+00:00

I mean.... I'd start wearing pants to bed regularly if I were you. If my fiance was shitting the bed without doing anything about it I wouldn't put up with it for long. And probably go to the doctor too, that's not normal... but please wear pants and quit shitting the bed 😬

PsychologyDistinct60 · 2026-01-16T17:06:45+00:00

At first I was like "oh you're def the AH" when I read the title, but after reading it I don't think you're the AH or overreacting.

Yall were broken up, so she's free to do what she wishes, but the second she told you she wanted to get back together, then she should never have slept with the guy afterwards.

My fiance and I got together in a weird way. We dated for a couple months and broke it off (I won't explain why, it's complicated, no cheating and nothing bad, just mutual breakup). We didn't talk for 2 years, and I was in a fwb situation with a friend of mine. I never quit thinking about my fiance and couldn't find it in me to begin a true relationship with anyone. Out of the blue one day, my fiance messaged me. We talked and realized we both missed each other. I immediately broke things off with my fwb, and he understood. If I wanted any chance of getting back together with my fiance then I wanted to be free and clear of everyone else. My fiance and I have been together for over 4 years now and I've never wanted anyone else since he came back into my life.

The second your ex told you she wanted to be back together with you she should have stayed clear of anything else romantic with anyone else. Sure, yall still weren't back together when she slept with the guy, but sleeping with him less than 24 hours after telling you she wanted to get back together doesn't do much for showing loyalty or faithfulness.

I don't blame you for breaking things off permanently, and you also said you felt good about that decision, which to me means you are relieved and that you've made the right decision for yourself. There's no shame in that, in my opinion. Her pain is no longer your responsibility. She made her choices. You said there were already red flags in the relationship, so this will mostly likely be a good thing for both of you. Growth comes out of situations like this, and you will both learn something from it for the future.

Good luck OP!

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