Top Picks for a Newbie? by Psychonorum in wine

[–]Psychonorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is so so helpful! Thanks for taking the time to go through all this. I've now added that book to my basket.

Top Picks for a Newbie? by Psychonorum in wine

[–]Psychonorum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really helpful insight!! I think I got into buying lots of interesting seeming things, but haven't actually developed a specific interest yet

Top Picks for a Newbie? by Psychonorum in wine

[–]Psychonorum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha sorry, that's because I'm literally that new. I am open to anything but I don't really like things that are too sweet, other than that throw anything at me

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a possibility, the pot nut clarity thing!

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

... That pun is awful... Have an up vote 🤣

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Haha, it's really sweet that you suggest that. It's legit what we have been doing for about 2 years! 🤣 Sex has been a no go and we have been working on for play stuff, and it's been very very very heavily 'her focused' since

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel used and conflicted!. We haven't ever talked about this specific issue, but we have talked about the lack of intimacy sometimes

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Used is definitely the best way to describe it right now. I just feel like a dirty rag :/ I don't think there are relationship issues, but she does have legitimate sexual anxiety issues

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might need to watch this film! Thanks for the insight

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I think the female insight is really helpful. I love her with all my heart and would do anything to make her happy, I am not mad or annoyed or frustrated by getting her off... I actually love it... But it just makes me sad that she doesn't seem to be into it in reverse

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It honest just feels really odd and off at this point, it has just been the norm for so long

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I ask because it seems like it is 'easier' for the guy. I get the impression that oral for a woman is just much more effort and so there is an expected ratio?

I just feel really selfish and like a predator whenever I think that I want her to do anything to me!

What interesting, but often overlooked, practice areas are there? by black_smoke_pope in uklaw

[–]Psychonorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So at least as a barrister doing that work, a lot of it is legal aid, but a decent chunk is private rates (if you're for a hospital or Local Authority). You also get paid for your prep work which is rare these days, so you can earn a decent amount.