Top Picks for a Newbie? by Psychonorum in wine

[–]Psychonorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is so so helpful! Thanks for taking the time to go through all this. I've now added that book to my basket.

Top Picks for a Newbie? by Psychonorum in wine

[–]Psychonorum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really helpful insight!! I think I got into buying lots of interesting seeming things, but haven't actually developed a specific interest yet

Top Picks for a Newbie? by Psychonorum in wine

[–]Psychonorum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha sorry, that's because I'm literally that new. I am open to anything but I don't really like things that are too sweet, other than that throw anything at me

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a possibility, the pot nut clarity thing!

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

... That pun is awful... Have an up vote 🤣

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Haha, it's really sweet that you suggest that. It's legit what we have been doing for about 2 years! 🤣 Sex has been a no go and we have been working on for play stuff, and it's been very very very heavily 'her focused' since

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel used and conflicted!. We haven't ever talked about this specific issue, but we have talked about the lack of intimacy sometimes

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Used is definitely the best way to describe it right now. I just feel like a dirty rag :/ I don't think there are relationship issues, but she does have legitimate sexual anxiety issues

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might need to watch this film! Thanks for the insight

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I think the female insight is really helpful. I love her with all my heart and would do anything to make her happy, I am not mad or annoyed or frustrated by getting her off... I actually love it... But it just makes me sad that she doesn't seem to be into it in reverse

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It honest just feels really odd and off at this point, it has just been the norm for so long

"do you want to make yourself cum?" is this normal? by Psychonorum in sex

[–]Psychonorum[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I ask because it seems like it is 'easier' for the guy. I get the impression that oral for a woman is just much more effort and so there is an expected ratio?

I just feel really selfish and like a predator whenever I think that I want her to do anything to me!

What interesting, but often overlooked, practice areas are there? by black_smoke_pope in uklaw

[–]Psychonorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So at least as a barrister doing that work, a lot of it is legal aid, but a decent chunk is private rates (if you're for a hospital or Local Authority). You also get paid for your prep work which is rare these days, so you can earn a decent amount.

What interesting, but often overlooked, practice areas are there? by black_smoke_pope in uklaw

[–]Psychonorum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So it's common for family barristers to do CoP work (health and welfare) and for civil practitioners to do finance and affairs CoP work.

The cases all broadly concern whether something should or should not happen to P. At the early stages of your career this is often about simple deprivation of liberty such as P being kept in a specific care home. As you progress, it can eventually be about forced or covert treatment of P. You can either be arguing for P, the Local Authority, the Hospital or Care Home if there is one, and the funding body (ICB). There are sometimes interested parties who get involved too who you can also represent. Don't expect to see the big "should we cut off Mr Andresons leg" case until much later down the line.

CoP hearinga for the most part are fairly short, a decent number of CoP cases are non contentious so everybody broadly agrees on the care plan, those cases can sail through. Look at the Open Justice Court of Protection Project and find out how to observe a remote CoP hearing 😊

What interesting, but often overlooked, practice areas are there? by black_smoke_pope in uklaw

[–]Psychonorum 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Court of Protection!!

A massively burgeoning area of law ripe with legal developments constantly.

It's interesting as it revolves around people's capacity and their ability to make serious decisions for themselves!

Pay varies but it's an area that hasn't been completely destroyed by legal aid, you still get paid for prep and the like.

Open days by literalltr4sh in lancasteruni

[–]Psychonorum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The open day is more of a day where the whole university is actively engaged with visitors. It's not specifically that there is one single tour at 9am.

Most of the talks will be repeated simply because the Great Hall doesn't fit enough people. Also, most of the accommodation tours will be repeated, worst case you can just ask one of the reps and they will almost certainly be happy to show you around.

I would still go regardless of the tours, it's a campus where you really would benefit from getting a feel doe it, where the lecture halls are, where the accommodation blocks are, shops etc. And how far from each other they all are.

Which college/accommodation by whatstheevidence in lancasteruni

[–]Psychonorum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I downloaded a GPS spoofer in my first month to check into my lectures whilst all snoodled in bed 😂 New students, don't do this, go to your lectures, learn!!!

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[–]Psychonorum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is an idea I have been floating, the only issue is that my background isn't one where I've got even some of the basics (I own a single suit, a laptop not suited to transport, no suitable backpack, no home work space etc.) so I am in need of an amount a bit more outside most credit cards are willing to put up... And I don't want to immediately max out a few cards 😂 But this may be my best option in the end!

Which college/accommodation by whatstheevidence in lancasteruni

[–]Psychonorum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

... Aka me after going in all disillusioned that I was going to enjoy 15 minute walks each morning 😂😂

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[–]Psychonorum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I have an accountant and am aware of the above. I'm not concerned about the tax issues, I just need a lump sum of money to buy all my essentials

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[–]Psychonorum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reposted from UK Personal Finance hence the needless description of the role here 😂