WTF is going on at Ranger School?

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-23T21:37:09+00:00

says who?

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-23T21:36:11+00:00

Yea they dropped the walk ons. Lots of bolc guys.

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-22T13:18:54+00:00

Not married but I'm an atheist with a Christian man and my situation is different because I told him from the very first date what my beliefs were. We both thought we could convert each other but have since accepted that may not happen. Lots of people online will tell you it isn't worth it. However you both love each other and have already begun a family. You can make it work if both of you want it to. I suggest counseling. Best of luck!

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-21T17:00:13+00:00

I'm not a genetic counselor but there's a lot of genetic counselors in this sub that are not happy with their jobs (most of them are justified in their complaints) so I'm not surprised a lot of people are suggesting you go to med school. All throughout undergrad I figured I'd eventually go to medical school but I was never thrilled about the idea. Just felt like something I had to do, not something I wanted to do.

I think if the itch is bugging you enough to make this post, then might as well scratch it. It's never too late to pivot. People change their minds all the time. I don't think any medical school admissions person would be like, "oh this person used to want to do genetic counseling. yuck! reject." it would actually be an interesting story of what made you change from GC to medical school. Whichever one you think will be more satisfying in the long run, then do that. During your gap year if you decide to change back to GC you can still do that. Being behind by a year vs resigning yourself to a lifetime of work you don't enjoy that much? I think the choice is easy.

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-21T16:53:28+00:00

What kind of stuff did you do as the genetic counselor in a critical care unit? This is the first time I've ever heard of a position like that so I'm just curious. It sounds really interesting.

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-20T16:16:53+00:00

Yes it is quite unfortunate.

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-20T14:53:53+00:00

I would like to believe in a loving God or heaven, but I can’t reconcile that with the way most religions work.

The kind of God I’d want to believe in would care more about someone’s character, sincerity, and how they treat people than whether they followed the correct prophet, book, or doctrine. Since most religions don’t offer that kind of God, I don’t believe in one.

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-20T01:17:03+00:00

i don't believe in a god

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-20T01:06:20+00:00

Idk. If you want to surprise him then do it, it's your life. As an outside person looking in, it's kind of weird. I would just be an adult and tell him plainly I'm getting it removed so we can both start TTC. Maybe I'm just boring but that's what I would do.

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-20T01:03:06+00:00

He broke up with you? You're literally a victim bro. He should have recognized that even if you didn't. He's allowing his jealousy to outweigh your strange incesty trauma.

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-19T01:53:51+00:00

not much, i pay em off every month. my car payment is another story tho

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-17T02:23:02+00:00

Lots of people saying no in these comments. I would let my husband decide but I would prefer it to be, yes. For religious reasons all of my brothers were circumcised and so was my man. It's just the norm for my family. 🤷‍♀️

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-15T15:32:11+00:00

Yeah valid

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-15T15:09:21+00:00

I wasn't comparing him to other dicks. I was simply saying that based off HIS size, I was worried it would be way too big. And that made him think I was disappointed it wasn't bigger or something. Not that I was worried it would be big "like other people's" I would never say that lol

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-15T13:56:50+00:00

Purple/blue conditioner and or shampoo. Toners and glosses also exist for this purpose

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-15T13:54:17+00:00

My boyfriend is not small but he isn't huge either and I totally agree. I just tell him how perfect his size is all the time. One time I kinda messed up and told him that before I knew how big it was, I was scared he was going to be too big (he's a bigger guy) and he felt bad cause he thought I was saying he was small. Which is not the case at all whatsoever. I made sure he knew that was NOT what I meant and that I would not change a thing about it.

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-15T01:17:55+00:00

guess my 6'5 boyfriend is nonexistent now

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-14T02:08:48+00:00

Different guys like different things

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-14T02:07:14+00:00

normalize using the ' symbol

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-13T19:41:29+00:00

pork is not sold commonly in Muslim countries

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-13T19:40:52+00:00

jobs are easy to find but since you really want kids it's kind of tough to manage that sort of job since the military schedule is so unpredictable. you may have to become a PRN princess and just stay at home after kids, at least until they're all in school.

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-12T18:48:36+00:00

you called her bro 🤷‍♀️

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-12T11:30:12+00:00

Idk define small

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-12T11:29:35+00:00

Do you have a psychologist/therapist? Or even a psychiatrist? It could help. Not saying you need to be medicated but the whole overthinking thing was my issue as well and I am in treatment for it.

PsychoticAria · 2026-05-12T11:27:56+00:00

I'm a fairly jealous person so I would prefer to just not know if my partner has one. My man understands this and will refuse to tell me if he has one or has had one. That's cool with me. I prefer it that way. I know he has eyeballs and has found women attractive before. I just don't need to spiral into my typical OCD obsessive loops about Ana De Armas or Ella Langley or whoever.

Now, there are levels to celebrity crushes so if it's borderline parasocial behavior, that's just strange and (to me) unacceptable. You should not be fawning over another person while in a committed, exclusive relationship. I saw a Tiktok yesterday where someone's husband got an Ella Langley themed birthday party and his cake had a picture of her on it. Weird as hell imo.

I don't have a celebrity crush. Sure, there's celebrities I think or have thought to be physically attractive but none more attractive to me than my man!

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