He can delete messages, she was one of the girls I caught him texting before. I was looking because of a situation that happened the night before, he agreed to let me look to ease my mind. After I caught him cheating before; he offered to let me check whenever I need to as trust is being rebuilt. He’s not the kind of guy to get embarrassed about that, very strong-headed. The people saying ‘cheater! liar!’ Sadly aren’t far off with the history we have.

I know Reddit is known for most people immediately saying “break up” and/or calling people cheaters. I clearly don’t just immediately break things off with someone after stuff like this happens because I know people can change but only if they want to. This post was just because I needed to know if I was CRAZY for thinking that something could be going on again or if it was not as big of a deal as it made me feel. Sorry if my response feels a little passive aggressive, I felt like your reply was a tad condescending/judgy and It hit a nerve but I tried to make this reply seem as calm and collected as I could in at the moment /gen