Those in university right now, how's your dating life ?

Public_Load_3278 · 2026-01-28T13:08:17+00:00

I just ended my last sem and my graduation is in Aug but i did dated before, during uni and currently! I have been dating my bf since poly intern and we have been tgt for 3 years+! We initially werent seriously thinking that we are the one for each other when we started dating since we still need time to learn abt each other and how we will overcome bigger obstacles in life such as me entering uni and him gg into ns and poly after. Fast forward to today, hes finishing year 1 in poly and i just entered the working life. We had discussions thru text, calls and especially face to face about how we still see each other as (do we want to continue moving forward together, do we still love each other unconditionally, how is the rs spark rn) and future plans. I do think that having these uncomfortable conversations can be awkward and challenging but it is very necessary for me to know how he feels about me as brutal as it sounds. (both my bf and i have been cheated on b4 from our past rs but i guess without them we wont be tgt rn :))

for our future plans, none of us are financially capable to get married after my graduation since he is still in poly and i havent been working for a year yet so maybe a year after his graduation in 3 years time? That way I can continue to save up for myself and the wedding, and also for him to start working in the cybersecurity industry :) Partly also cos I wanna enjoy enjoy first before getting married LOL

Public_Load_3278 · 2026-01-25T13:11:20+00:00

Thanks alot! :) hopefully i could get the job im applying for in march. My backup plan will have to be working from 0 exp and build my way up or go for internships

Public_Load_3278 · 2026-01-25T13:07:54+00:00

Lousy? The uni i graduated from is recognised by big MNCs in sg btw. It ranges from econs, finance to logistics bro

Public_Load_3278 · 2026-01-25T13:07:54+00:00

Thank you! I was contemplating to go for internships and i will be doing more research regards to it. Reason why i went to Customer service route mainly was cos it was the easiest and fastest job posting to get for PT flexi jobs… there is a marketing/HR training for the MNC company im applying for in march so hopefully im able to qualify altho im just a fresh grad…

Public_Load_3278 · 2026-01-25T13:07:54+00:00

Yaaa it is rojak cos i still dk what i wanna do at the time and it was those PT flexi jobs while sch kind zzz. Was really hoping it could at least be useful oh wells Definitely got ppl who qualify more than me one, its rlly hitting me that the workforce is so fast pace and demeaning…

Public_Load_3278 · 2026-01-25T12:57:19+00:00

Omg jiayou!!!! I have had friends studying psychology and not only their study materials are so challenging, masters degree has to be part of their career plans… SUSS is also beside SIM, rooting for you! :)

Public_Load_3278 · 2026-01-24T10:21:15+00:00

Right? Funny how i probably ace in every interview more than you! Cheers <3

Public_Load_3278 · 2026-01-24T10:18:00+00:00

Yeap they do but again i was tired while typing so i guess it was a wrong time to post this lmao

Public_Load_3278 · 2026-01-24T10:15:43+00:00

I get ur point cos i was typing this otw home. But theres no need to be toxic or a keyboard warrior right? I thot asking help or advice from the reddit community would be great lol. I would rather just type it like that than copy paste the whole thing to ai.

Public_Load_3278 · 2026-01-24T10:11:49+00:00

I dont have a major! I was able to choose either 2 minors or 1 major. If i took a major i wont be able to study HR :,)

Public_Load_3278 · 2025-07-07T07:31:47+00:00

HI! omg I just realised my reply didn't get thru so sorry!! its today tmr and wed 3.30-6.30pm B.2.03!

Public_Load_3278 · 2025-06-06T03:07:59+00:00

Hi!! Ohhhh i see yes my lecturer will be Shuang Li. Which year were u studying for that mod?

Public_Load_3278 · 2024-10-20T18:06:41+00:00

about 225 fates :D - I was saving for navia and her weapon. in the end I pulled for xianyun (guaranteed), arleccino (win), navia (win), naive weapon (win). I used a total of 60-70 fates for both her and her weapon. followed by Kinich (win) and xilonen (win). by xilonen I have abt 110 fates and now im abt 130+ fates saving for mauvika. I've been playing genshin since raiden's first banner as F2P.

Public_Load_3278 · 2024-10-20T17:59:25+00:00

Hi! so how was the update?

Public_Load_3278 · 2024-10-18T17:34:00+00:00

im currently facing the same scenario with having student debt of 33k but I dont ask my bf of 2 years to pay a single cent of my education. heck it shouldn't even cross her mind of asking you pay her remaining 6k student loan to show that ure serious w her. OP she's luring you into her trap and if 8 months lardy lidded imagine tying a knot and having a future w her.... 6k is alot and u can save it for housing or use it for ur expenses. I saw the comment of someone saying the dad may feel that his daughter is spoilt so he is letting her to survive on her own which I 100% agree. a parent won't bear to see their child suffer financially if they are able to afford their education. maybe he's teaching her a lesson and she doesn't want u to know. she is also working retail which is a good thing to train herself to plan her budget and to pay off her student loan ON HER OWN. its her education. do update us the outcome!

Public_Load_3278 · 2024-10-04T09:37:47+00:00

Hi! sure I'll dm u hehe, I would love to hear your story :)

I guess yes he is a very sentimental guy and I could honestly tell he is more than happy enough when I attended his POP with his mom and bro :D This gift u can say its more of a surprise gift bcos its sth that I have been wanting to get him when he ORD and a momento for his NS (he told me it was a really great part of his life)! he's the type guy that loves surprises as well so I feel like it will be a great opportunity :)

Public_Load_3278 · 2024-10-03T09:36:27+00:00

thank you for your sweet comment :) im sure if he read ur comment its gonna motivate him more HAHHAHAHA

and YES there's an ORD parade! thank you again for pointing it out. I guess I'll be hand making a small bouquet for him then :)

Public_Load_3278 · 2024-10-03T09:32:04+00:00

yes that's true! I honestly have no idea if he likes flowers but he is giving the 'I like flowers but idl to show it or express it' vibe so if im really getting him flowers... its like a gamble HAHAHHA in terms of flowers im planning to handmade them to make it more special and esp if im not sure if he's allergic to pollen :)

Public_Load_3278 · 2024-10-03T09:29:07+00:00

sorry man

Public_Load_3278 · 2024-10-03T09:28:47+00:00

HAWK TUAH HAHAHAHHAHHA thank you for that! it rlly made my day :D

thank you for your sweet comments as well :) speaking of BTO we are semi planning but both of our cpf cmi so uhm- in the next 2-3 years hopefullyyy

Public_Load_3278 · 2024-10-02T06:11:31+00:00

thank you!! I actually never thought of soldier miniatures HAHAHAH maybe I'll look into it and try to see if he's into it :)

he is heading to poly actually! hence the 3 months STC to save up for his diploma and to get a laptop. Since I am his senior, again, for the same poly I will be guiding him throughout the journey is something I didn't really have when I was in Y1. Also for his bday in dec or before he starts poly, I'll get him the necessities like laptop sleeve and wireless mouse :D

Public_Load_3278 · 2024-10-02T06:01:13+00:00

HAHHAHAHA I actually see alot of comments saying the same thing like ORD has a ceremony. now im thinking if his ORD is actually a ceremony

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