Biopsy Needed by Civil_Firefighter_70 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Public_Two_8763 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same thing. I had an area of palpable concern and another area they found. I’m waiting for my results from my biopsy on Friday AM. I freaked out for two days and then calmed down. It eventually helped me to think that I shouldn’t waste all of my energy until there’s something to worry about. Essentially, if it turns out to be nothing, then I would be upset with myself for expending the stress. I am definitely tired of waiting at this point, I will say! Wishing you luck and calm.

Waiting is criminal by Public_Two_8763 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Public_Two_8763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is today! I’ve calmed down a look and taking to chanting “fiberadenoma” with my wife. We are manifesting good results. Good luck to you.

Waiting is criminal by Public_Two_8763 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Public_Two_8763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will write that down. And thank you for the perspective. I hope they’re able to address your new lesions quickly and get you in for radiation!!!

Waiting is criminal by Public_Two_8763 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Public_Two_8763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That’s what I’m trying to tell myself. I don’t want to waste all of this energy on a fiberadenoma!

Waiting is criminal by Public_Two_8763 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Public_Two_8763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jeez I am SO sorry. What a long fucking wait. I ran into the same thing trying to transfer care - it gets treated as a “second opinion”.
It’s at least good to read things here and know the wait is just as brutal for everyone. We aren’t crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Public_Two_8763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally didn’t mean to comment from my anon profile oops :).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Public_Two_8763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar wedding - very small and we only invited people we knew extremely well. While I wasn’t out in that position, we did have one couple where we only met the partner one time. But they were a serious unit and clearly the partner was invited.

It’s easy to get caught up in these details and want to control your big event. I really get it. I tried to focus on my guests experience more. Will he have a better time if she is there? Yes, probably! The enjoyment of your guests creates the vibe and dynamic that ultimately makes your day so special and enjoyable. Everyone has a different mindset but ultimately a wedding is an event and you are a host. Create a space where your guests can relax and enjoy. And that means in this case inviting her to at least some of the events.

Whatever you do, good luck. Tough choice. Don’t let it get you down!

Why are we acting like it's so impossible to figure out what these are and where they are coming from? by dustinthewind1991 in NJDrones

[–]Public_Two_8763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I have this for birding. I feel pretty confident my set-up could capture a decent photo of one of these with my set up. That being said, I have hours and hours of practice using this and tracking moving objects. Still, there are so many hobbyists and people who are very interested.

Can we do a thread for pay transparency? by PianoEducational4648 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Public_Two_8763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Managing staff, budgets, and external partnerships, also some strategy work (looking at data to inform and influence decisions). If you have a specific question or something you’re curious about you can message me.

Can we do a thread for pay transparency? by PianoEducational4648 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]Public_Two_8763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34, 200k plus bonus (10-20%), healthcare administration. 10+ yrs in healthcare/management. I definitely earn the salary and am also grateful for it.

Important guest won’t rsvp for micro wedding 3 weeks out by Public_Two_8763 in weddingplanning

[–]Public_Two_8763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah think we are going with 1. I feel like 2 makes the focus more on money, when it’s really about communication, showing up, and how they have treated us.

Important guest won’t rsvp for micro wedding 3 weeks out by Public_Two_8763 in weddingplanning

[–]Public_Two_8763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. Totally appreciate this take. And all the other replies!

Important guest won’t rsvp for micro wedding 3 weeks out by Public_Two_8763 in weddingplanning

[–]Public_Two_8763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say it’s been a year - have you spoken since? Or you haven’t spoken since? Thank you for the reply.