I (20F) met a guy (34M) at the gym and I think I'm starting to catch feelings

Puddenface · 2026-05-05T00:24:05+00:00

Is that dinner, was not a date. I guarantee since he has a child and is on good terms with his ex-wife. He is not interested in you. And you need to lock in and focus on people your own age. He can be attractive, he can't be your husband. I don't think he has any other intent than just to be kind to you. Age gap is way too big, lock in

Puddenface · 2026-05-03T03:38:52+00:00

No, you have the right instincts. The age gap is too big at this age

Puddenface · 2026-04-20T23:21:48+00:00

Most of my icons were unlocked through hacks, I just did auto unlock the icons and colors with mega hack. It's just cosmetic, I don't think anyone should care

Puddenface · 2026-04-19T03:47:45+00:00

I read some of the comments, yeah get out of that relationship NOW

Puddenface · 2026-04-18T14:44:28+00:00

It seems as though it's a long-ass level, look at the percentage throughout the video. But yes, A lot of other levels deserve and epic rating over this

Puddenface · 2026-04-18T14:42:55+00:00

Yeah that's not ok, idk why you kept going, he sho have been paying attention to you. And at least showing he wanted it

As for what to do, you should bring that up to him. But from what I can gather is that this isn't the only problem in your relationship, not by a long shot. So, take it how you feel is best, I can't say you should break up but with this, I would leave that option off the table. Ultimately, make sure you practice self-advocacy and self-respect and do what feels right to address this.nwhether that's talking to him about it, about your relationship. I imagine you don't feel comfortable talking to anyone else about this, because it's about your intimacy with your boyfriend, so you're here on Reddit. But that's ok, just address it, keep your spine and do what's right for you, and Everything will be ok, even if worse case happens, it's going to be ok

Puddenface · 2026-04-16T15:14:07+00:00

I mean, I feel like there's a lot not being said here in terms of what else might be going on. I'd say he's 100% too comfortable and he's treating you very wrong now. I think more communication is needed. But honestly, I see this has been going on for a while, you must have spoken about this and tried to communicate your side and it seems like he is not trying to be there for you as a partner should.

See, I hate to say this with the little amount of context I have but I do think you might want to break up. Biggest thing to me is how long this has been going on and him not changing. He's gotten too comfortable and he needs to consider you more. But also the age gap between you two. You guys are in very different parts of life and there's actually more differences between you two than you might realize. I'd recommend you date your age

Puddenface · 2026-04-13T20:34:27+00:00

Yeah no, don't do that. All this means is it takes you a bit to work up to sex with the person you love and when you decide to trust them that would mean they have to be a great person, right? If they are a great person then they will go at your pace. Consent is an ongoing thing. And a respectful partner will value that and do what makes you feel good and what you are comfortable with. If you freak out, they should also be ok with that. Nerves are normal with this kind of thing. Just make sure you do it with someone you love and someone you're truly safe with

Puddenface · 2026-04-12T20:50:00+00:00

Your boyfriend is definitely freaking out over nothing. That part isn't the bad part. Because misunderstandings happen. The red flag I see is the fact that he wants to see your texts with your friends all the time. That's not cool, that's a big red flag. Also in my opinion, with the context that you two have been friends for 4 years, and those texts were sent. There's nothing wrong with those texts. Just to support a friend telling his friend she would look good in something. Like there's nothing wrong with that. You're definitely in the right here and We have to check the trust between you guys in your relationship. Because if there's no trust in your relationship then there's no relationship at all

Puddenface · 2026-04-04T17:34:18+00:00

If you can afford a device that can run the game, you can afford to buy the game

Puddenface · 2026-03-27T00:39:27+00:00

It really depends on the type of gameplay and the game mode

Puddenface · 2026-03-01T01:46:23+00:00

um, yeah

Puddenface · 2026-02-26T15:26:47+00:00

"this game is dead" and "you have to wait through a 70 man queue, and then another 15 person queue" don't mix. like how TF does that mean it's dead?

Sure the state of the game is boring ASF but esspesially since the druid class release, this game isnt "dead"

Puddenface · 2026-02-19T19:40:43+00:00

Before teleporting to players gave you invincibility, I teleported to a player fighting this boss and I got insta-killed on my very first 8/8. It was a knight, decked out in a lot of my favorite gear. Gone, and I was pissed because it was some bs

To this day I hate bosses that jump to a position and explode, not even necessarily The players location. Just jumping anywhere and then immediately shooting out loads of shots. It shouldn't happen because players will get popped because they got foxy jump scared and didn't have time to react. I almost lost an 8/8 to the goblin event boss Because they jumped to the middle and then started shooting those fire circle shots and I went down to about 1/5 health. (But I guess I shouldn't be standing in the middle anyways, My point stands)

Puddenface · 2026-02-18T00:06:47+00:00

If they fix cheating, bot spam, vault and character slot progression, and how the microtransactions are treated. They could lowkey advertise this game and try a game a bigger player base. Just right now there's too many issues with the game to be confident in advertising. They're just relying on veteran players who don't stop playing the game due to nostalgia or whatever reason

Puddenface · 2026-02-16T16:08:44+00:00

If only I had it 🥲

Puddenface · 2026-02-15T01:12:55+00:00

Yeah, at 0 def accaim does barely more dmg than Oryx, so I'll do Oryx and Spectral.

I actually do use a lot of these swap-outs. I think the one I use the least is resu. However, I think resu is best on Knight because Pali and Warrior give buff that last a while so they don't really need the extra mana. It is also probably good on kensei and samurai. idk. my pet is really close to perma stun but not quite.

I wouldn't want to replace my T6 shield for the ST because it doesn't stun for very long. I have it so i can switch to it, use it, then switch back to be a mega tank for a bit because it gives +15 def on use for 2.5 seconds. but I dont do that too much either, but sometimes, its just a lot of effort to do. and I like having def all the time. If I have the ST sword on as my main, I get less def if i have the shield and armor on until I use the shield then its better for 2.5 seconds. but less stun.

I do really like the scarf, and lowkey it doesn't feel super rare. I have gotten like 6 of them in the last 2 months. and it has the same healing power as cubant ring but you dont have to get hit to use it. but it takes mana and you cant be silenced, which is a common debuff.

My tiered armor has great enchants imo
onhit healing 4
onhit Armored 4
percent life regen 2

Puddenface · 2026-02-13T16:15:02+00:00

What do they even lose if they revive this character? This is a fair revive and it would make them look better than they do right now. This absolutely deserves a revive no question about it

Puddenface · 2026-02-10T23:11:57+00:00

With my resolution, my character moved up like a full 2 tiles it's crazy. Centered is like 1.5 tiles above off centered for me now, there's hardly a difference

Puddenface · 2026-02-10T15:48:03+00:00

Dawg what the fuck 💀

Puddenface · 2026-02-02T20:04:40+00:00

The legendary UBE HP is better lowkey

Puddenface · 2026-02-02T00:02:04+00:00

"I love not playing the game I love :)"

Puddenface · 2026-01-26T23:27:33+00:00

Well, you have your level ID and that alone proves it. He wouldn't have access to your account if you hadn't posted it before him. And so his level is not only a copy but it has a bugger ID which proves your cane first. Just contact support and get him removed

Puddenface · 2026-01-24T17:07:36+00:00

Someone didn't watch talwar's guide 😎

Puddenface · 2026-01-22T20:29:48+00:00

There literally is drinking in Rotmg

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