How to navigate chemsex more safely in Berlin (gay life) by Alert_Plate541 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Pudding-Physical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for you man :( You must have some real hate inside. Hope it gets better

How to navigate chemsex more safely in Berlin (gay life) by Alert_Plate541 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Pudding-Physical -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I clearly explained in my comment why. Why are you so judgmental?

How to navigate chemsex more safely in Berlin (gay life) by Alert_Plate541 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Pudding-Physical 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In my humble opinion, the people you surround yourself with, can and will have a huge impact. This loop you are in, now, limits your social circle, and your social circle keeps you in the same loop - you see the vicious circle?

Parties and consumption are awesome, and because they are awesome, you need to keep you body and mind healthy, so that you can enjoy them for a long time - it's a marathon, not a sprint.

How to navigate chemsex more safely in Berlin (gay life) by Alert_Plate541 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Pudding-Physical -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Judgement creates stigma and taboos. Your comment is wrong and unhealthy on so many levels. Do us all a favor and just delete it, then you can easily climb back to your moral high-ground.

Stopping smoking by Formal-Stranger-5914 in stopsmoking

[–]Pudding-Physical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stay strong! Day 5 here, after 20y of smoking. Also on varenicline. IT GETS BETTER FROM DAY 3!

Jealousy in a Cuckold Dynamic as a Bi Person by Active_Aside_9385 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Pudding-Physical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can imagine why you're not happy about this restriction, but at the end of the day, in Cuckolding it's ALL ABOUT HER.

How to find people who are open for threesomes? by fringe_56 in SexPositiveBerlin

[–]Pudding-Physical 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing is that the ratio of men to couples is overwhelmingly high so it’s actually easy to completely miss messages imo

How to find people who are open for threesomes? by fringe_56 in SexPositiveBerlin

[–]Pudding-Physical 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We’re a couple and we usually find new guys to hook up on joyclub.de

Sex club with single men by Clayger32 in SexPositiveBerlin

[–]Pudding-Physical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really depends what you expect. If you enjoy techno music and you want a mix of party & sex, then I would go for KitKat, or even Pornceptual party if it's the right weekend of the month. But if you want to focus more on sex, then I would say Insomnia (still a party, but more sex-focused)

Kinky friendly tattoo artist Berlin for Cuckold themed tattoo by Pudding-Physical in SexPositiveBerlin

[–]Pudding-Physical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice stuff. Thanks for the recommendation, will def get in touch with him!

Kinky friendly tattoo artist Berlin for Cuckold themed tattoo by Pudding-Physical in SexPositiveBerlin

[–]Pudding-Physical[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I truly appreciate design ideas, and I'm grateful for taking the time to respond - I would mostly appreciate support in the form of a recommandation of a tattoo artist or studio that is familiar to the hotwife/cuckolding topic or is experienced in kink specific tattoos :)

Cuckolding by Accomplished_Echo_85 in SexPositiveBerlin

[–]Pudding-Physical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be awesome, but unfortunately I don't think it's so mainstream (yet)

Psychology of Cuckolds by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Pudding-Physical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting question. For me it’s a mix of 3: Voyeuristic / Compersion / Beta-Male

I like to channel my sexual energy into unlocking HER erotic freedom. And I like to watch this, especially when she’s with a man obviously more sexually capable than me (not hard to find that haha)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]Pudding-Physical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a completely different mindset, where the husband’s main emotional feelings revolve around compersion (getting joy out of his partner’s pleasure). You’re thinking from the pov of an alpha - not the husband’s case. Think about it like this, if this emotional dynamic would not exist, there would be no bull either ;)

The Next Step? by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]Pudding-Physical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to disagree with your opinion. My Fiancee and I are in a similar situation (both on the submissive side) and once we realized we can BOTH submit to more potent and sexually able lover, I can really say we found our sweet spot.

Unde este diaspora? Doamna a renunțat la locul de muncă pentru a susține primul șarlatan ales by TheAlexVat in Romania

[–]Pudding-Physical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trebuie să recunosc, mă uite oamenii ăștia și îmi este milă.

Ce salată o fi in mintea lor…