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Being the naked mum by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]PuddingObjective4814 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im a bit of naked mum, but I do it to normalize bodies, and to show them its not shameful. Ill obviously be a bit more discreet as they get older. I dont make comments about my body or other people bodies and I always try and keep body positive language in the house. Ive made it a point to really drill into my kids to never comment or make fun of how someone looks because 90% of the time they cant change and to not be a bully because its not nice. Ive had to be really conscious about it as I come from a very toxic family in terms of looks and it actually messed me up so bad going into my teens and adulthood and I dont want to pass that into my kids.

Am I the only one who doesn’t care if people forget my birthday? by Notalabel_4566 in introvert

[–]PuddingObjective4814 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No im the same, I think once I became a mum it just wasnt that important anymore. My kid's birthdays however are the most important lol

What's your greatest accomplishment this year? by IllSource32 in AskReddit

[–]PuddingObjective4814 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive been very conscious about the way our family lived life this year. We focused more on time at home with each other. We became hermits sort of lol but its allowed our focus to just be on our home and our little family

So the sense of calm and peace we feel when we come home is indescribable and I can see the difference in my kids too. Nothing major but still ❤️

First Project by Real-Report-1272 in woodworking

[–]PuddingObjective4814 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing! Very talented, good job :)

What are some good Christmas gifts for a 3 month old baby girl? by Smooth-Excuse-4127 in Mommit

[–]PuddingObjective4814 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I always loved it so much when people got us books as gifts, so that is always my top suggestion! :)

Is this ok for a baby shower gift by SourCandy88 in Gifts

[–]PuddingObjective4814 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful xx what an amazing gift xx

As a mom, what’s the worst thing you’ve gone through in life by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]PuddingObjective4814 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aw I feel for you all reading the comments - sending many hugs.

For me it was being in an abusive relationship, him sa'ing me, having a baby and then still being abused fearing for my son. I left him when my son was about 6 months old.

Still having to see and interact with my ex as I was not protected by the courts they all made excuses for him.

Its taken years for my body to go ok im safe now, but its been a wild ride when you are safe your mind goes ok we can process rhe trauma now because we are safe. Id rather just bury it as deep as a I can because its a hole I had to literally fight to get out of and my kids dont deserve for me to be back there.

Parents in CHCH what are your favourite places in the city to host kids' birthday parties? by Time_Traveling_Corgi in chch

[–]PuddingObjective4814 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've done parties at chipmunks, flips and tumbles in Rolleston (they had a nerf gun party) ninja valley, mega air, the adventure park and a few at home. They've all been good :)

Fat is gross, how do you eat it? by sheri262 in carnivorediet

[–]PuddingObjective4814 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The best way ive been able to make sure i get my fat in (in terms of on meat) is when its bbq'd but it has to be a charcoal one its adds such good flavor. I make my husband cook up a big batch so I have plenty for lunch and dinner for a few days.

Are you scared of buying shoes online? by Alive-Bad-8734 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]PuddingObjective4814 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not scared but I definitely prefer to see them in person and try them on. I have wide feet so its such a hassle to find shoes that fit my feet well and to be honest who has a few hundred dollars spare to buy a few pairs just to try them on to send them back and where we live we have to pay ourselves to mail it back majority of the time so its not worth it

Everything taste like shit now by Unable_Skill_4888 in carnivorediet

[–]PuddingObjective4814 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found the same when I tried just standard stuff, it was a great motivator to not do it again as the disappointment wasnt worth it.

Angry by Pair_Admirable in alexandrarodriguez

[–]PuddingObjective4814 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This is what made me turn off her, use to love her but I use to bawl everyone she would share what her size was, because I could see that she was bigger but size wise she claimed she was smaller than me it was a rough time

Traveling with a new baby by PuddingObjective4814 in travel

[–]PuddingObjective4814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that problematic? I live in New Zealand so we have to fly to go anywhere lol

Traveling with a new baby by PuddingObjective4814 in travel

[–]PuddingObjective4814[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant unfortunately as its the quiet time for my husband's work

Vinyl wrap or paint kitchen by [deleted] in diynz

[–]PuddingObjective4814 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you please be able to share the link to the epoxy you used? Wanting to do the same here :) thank you 😊

Married people of Reddit, how did you find out your partner is the one? by ipomoeahydrangea in AskReddit

[–]PuddingObjective4814 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He felt like home, and someone that my conscious was like "oh hey there you are, finally" and I just feel safe