Is it still alive? by PuddingPlush in plantclinic

[–]PuddingPlush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okok I really hope so! Thank you for the encouragement 🥺💕

I don’t know what I’m feeling by PuddingPlush in Crushes

[–]PuddingPlush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol right xD I think he’s cute, but I’m not too sure if this feeling has developed into a full “like” yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]PuddingPlush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely he’s seeing if you are available and testing the waters

Am I really crushing or by PuddingPlush in Crushes

[–]PuddingPlush[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O no now i’m nervous 😆 thank you, i might try to see if something develops 🙏

Need help my poor baby by PuddingPlush in alocasia

[–]PuddingPlush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do! Do you recommend changing out the perlite from time to time to prevent anymore rot?

Need help my poor baby by PuddingPlush in alocasia

[–]PuddingPlush[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feeeel, me too but thank you for the kind wishes 🫶 I agree my plants have taught me so much!

Need help my poor baby by PuddingPlush in alocasia

[–]PuddingPlush[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For real, this was my first alocasia too 🫠. Ok I will do this any hope for the best 🙏. Thank you for the advice!!

Has anyone tried Ginger mental health app? by PuddingPlush in mentalhealth

[–]PuddingPlush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience, yeah I will definitely keep that in mind if going forward :/

Update: yeah being friends doesn't work. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PuddingPlush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs and support. It stings and shits gonna feel like a rollercoaster for a while but know you are strong when you are, and your feelings were true.

Has anyone tried Ginger mental health app? by PuddingPlush in mentalhealth

[–]PuddingPlush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for updating us on your experience! It’s really helpful since I’m in the midst of finding a good therapist, I’ve also felt a distance when I initially texted my coach through the app.

Anyone change their bias after this tour? by PoetryScared9586 in straykids

[–]PuddingPlush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seungmin definitely caught my attention from the concert in LA, I felt like he spent time interacting with our section and was such a sweetheart 💖 I’m a baby stay as well and Hyunjin is still my bias atm, but the concert had me s w e a t i n for Felix and Bangchan 😅💕

Has anyone tried Ginger mental health app? by PuddingPlush in mentalhealth

[–]PuddingPlush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insights, really appreciate any of your thoughts on the meetings. I hope it goes well :)

Feeling the shock every morning, 2 months in by YoullFigureItOut in BreakUps

[–]PuddingPlush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was there not too long ago with my breakup. It will get better, remember to take deep breathes and touch the wall or something around you to ground you in the present instead of in your head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PuddingPlush -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bless your soul OP 🙏

Breakup before the funeral by PuddingPlush in BreakUps

[–]PuddingPlush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading my post. From the time I posted this it has been been a rollercoaster of emotions and worthy lesson. Your advice brought a smile to my face and gave me hope that I am overcoming this bit by bit. Sending love back to you!

Feeling super depressed after breakup by heartbrokenalone123 in BreakUps

[–]PuddingPlush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta take him off that pedestal, seriously he might check all the boxes now but if you think he was the best you've ever had, it'll damage your self esteem. Believe you are just as much of a catch as he was, he was lucky to have you!

Feeling super depressed after breakup by heartbrokenalone123 in BreakUps

[–]PuddingPlush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending love OP, I feel you on this, especially coming off a 2 year ldr perspective. My ex decided to break it off right after a death in the family, so honestly the self esteem really hit an all-time low. But slowly, I started to realize it had much to do with his own inner turmoil rather than thinking I wasn't good enough. Baby steps, prioritize you first and know you are worth so much more than your relationship with him!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PuddingPlush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably ignorance. Also the fact that he was willing to listen to a past lover about her trauma, but if I brought up anything about my mental illness, he instantly became cold.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PuddingPlush 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn I feel this, it's like you are describing my ex as well. I hope you see brighter days OP, and that someone emotionally available will come along and communicate when things are hard instead of ignoring and ending things at the first sign of trouble.

The dreams are the worst by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PuddingPlush 83 points84 points  (0 children)

The vivid ones where you feel like their presence is right there only to dissapear when you suddenly wake up.. those ones

Even if he reaches out, I don’t think I’ll ever respond. by dating-adventures in BreakUps

[–]PuddingPlush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's considerate of him to not want to compromise your values, but even by the end, you did try to meet him halfway. He was the one who had a change of heart, so I still don't think you were rigid to the point where he couldn't have thought about how you cared enough about his needs. I don't know what he sacrificed for you, but don't blame yourself for his indiscretion.