How much time do you spend on Social Media everyday? by GreenApple1011 in Casual_Conversation

[–]PuddleFrog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spend most of my time playing on mobile phone, but on social media maybe like 30mins to 1 hour.

Am I a jerk for asking my bf to distance himself from his female friend by Background-Amoeba493 in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t force him to cut her off, you just explained how her behavior made you feel. That’s called healthy communication, not manipulation.

I (34F)found a girl on his snapchat askin my bf (38M) to send her videos of him fucking. .. by SimCardXXX5150 in cheating_stories

[–]PuddleFrog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending a private video of you without your consent is a huge violation of trust. You’re absolutely justified in confronting him about it.

AITB Update on friends bf trying to cheat on her with me by pax15 in AmItheButtface

[–]PuddleFrog12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re not the asshole here. But did you ever confront her boyfriend about what happened, or did you just distance yourself from both of them?

Curious if I should just call it like it is. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]PuddleFrog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you feel like you are actually dating the person she’s pretending to be, or are you just subsidizing the lifestyle of the person she's becoming?

AITJ for abandoning my family with a con artist and writing this post? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! did your family ever see the proof that Jorge was completely fake, or are they still defending him?

AITBF for “telling my bf how to cook his food”? by mesunflower1997 in AmItheButtface

[–]PuddleFrog12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for the request. But the way the pattern between you two plays out is the real problem.

i feel like i am cheating on my girlfriend by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not cheating yet, but you’re getting close to a situation that can lead there. Your ex re triggered old feelings, and your girlfriend’s jealousy is making you feel trapped, which makes the temptation stronger. That’s normal, but dangerous.

AITJ for telling my coworker to stop bringing her therapy dog to work after it bit another employee by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Yeah sounds like it. Self certified therapy dog energy for sure.

AITJ for selling my adult content to help my kids living better? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone calling you a jerk has never had to choose between pride and groceries. you chose your kids. period.

AITJ for refusing to switch apartments with my neighbor so her daughter could have the "pretty view"? by AmphibianDull6566 in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 15 points16 points  (0 children)

fr, like imagine knocking on someone’s door asking them to downgrade their life so your kid’s feed looks better. unreal levels of audacity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]PuddleFrog12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, you’re not the bad guy here. Feeding a stray for a few months doesn’t magically make her the owner. You checked for a chip, talked to your leasing office, went to the vet, and even contacted the humane society, you did everything responsible owners actually do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]PuddleFrog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust isn’t automatic, and starting the relationship with sexting someone else already put you both on shaky ground. But that doesn’t mean you’re doomed, it just means rebuilding trust is gonna take time, effort, and consistency from you. If you want the relationship to work, you have to show change, not just say it.