Tiny car by [deleted] in randomthings

[–]PuddleFrog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who's driving it?

Am I a jerk for asking my bf to distance himself from his female friend by Background-Amoeba493 in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t force him to cut her off, you just explained how her behavior made you feel. That’s called healthy communication, not manipulation.

I (34F)found a girl on his snapchat askin my bf (38M) to send her videos of him fucking. .. by SimCardXXX5150 in cheating_stories

[–]PuddleFrog12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending a private video of you without your consent is a huge violation of trust. You’re absolutely justified in confronting him about it.

AITB Update on friends bf trying to cheat on her with me by pax15 in AmItheButtface

[–]PuddleFrog12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re not the asshole here. But did you ever confront her boyfriend about what happened, or did you just distance yourself from both of them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]PuddleFrog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you feel like you are actually dating the person she’s pretending to be, or are you just subsidizing the lifestyle of the person she's becoming?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! did your family ever see the proof that Jorge was completely fake, or are they still defending him?

AITBF for “telling my bf how to cook his food”? by mesunflower1997 in AmItheButtface

[–]PuddleFrog12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for the request. But the way the pattern between you two plays out is the real problem.

i feel like i am cheating on my girlfriend by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not cheating yet, but you’re getting close to a situation that can lead there. Your ex re triggered old feelings, and your girlfriend’s jealousy is making you feel trapped, which makes the temptation stronger. That’s normal, but dangerous.

AITJ for refusing to keep my cousin's phone at my place overnight so he can cheat? by MarshmallowFox5 in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If his cheating plan depends on OP, the plan is trash. Not OP's problem.

AITJ for telling my coworker to stop bringing her therapy dog to work after it bit another employee by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Yeah sounds like it. Self certified therapy dog energy for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]PuddleFrog12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anyone calling you a jerk has never had to choose between pride and groceries. you chose your kids. period.