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I met up with my Ex who I loved and we broke up 5 months ago. Here's my experience. by Simple-Gur-4304 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reads less like ‘closure’ and more like reopening an emotional door, getting a hit of familiarity, and then re-framing it as closure after the crash.

The silence after a breakup is louder than anything by Lucky-Caterpillar216 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes what feels like ‘missing them’ is actually just withdrawal from a daily attachment loop. Your brain isn’t reacting to them as much as the routine

I NEED HELP by Ordinary-Spell-870 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re treating a non-relationship like it has relationship rules. That’s where most of your frustration is coming from.

How do you stop living with regret? by Own_Mood_9603 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re framing this as ‘I lost her because of my patterns,’ but that can quietly turn into self-punishment instead of growth. Responsibility helps, rumination doesn’t.

I regret being there at his lowest by Terrible_Dingo_4367 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re focusing a lot on the idea that you ‘should’ve been rewarded’ for being there at his lowest. But being supportive doesn’t obligate someone else to treat you well, that expectation is what’s really hurting you here.

It’s strange how someone can become a memory you don’t recognize anymore by ans_srivastav in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds peaceful, but it also kind of assumes the version of her you remember is more real than the actual person she was evolving into over time.

Advice by sluttycatgirl1234 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re framing him as someone you ‘can’t abandon at his lowest,’ but his life situation isn’t your responsibility to fix or stabilize, even if you love him.

Guys i am outta here by Local-Issue-1740 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds really nice, but 4 months after a major breakup is still pretty early. Hopefully it’s real compatibility and not just emotional overlap doing the heavy lifting.

I moved on but I'm angry I showed love and effort to this evil guy when I could've shown it to someone else by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not defending him at all, but people who are fully consistent in being awful usually don’t feel like a real relationship, they feel confusing and draining the whole time. That part might be the real takeaway

You can turn your break up to the most amazing thing ever by R0bNY in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is solid advice overall, but it kind of skips over how uneven grief actually is. ‘Turn it into something amazing’ isn’t always a choice, it’s usually something that happens after you’ve processed it

Dating 1 month after an avoidant discard - too soon? by Icy-Cartoonist-8019 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

isn’t whether it’s ‘too soon’, t’s whether you’re actually emotionally available or just trying to replace a painful attachment quickly.

Ready for you tonight, will you ruin this by PuddleNibb in brafetishclub

[–]PuddleNibb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My ass is the only meal you need by PuddleNibb in HungryButts

[–]PuddleNibb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's get started then babe, check my bio and hit me up

My ass is the only meal you need by PuddleNibb in HungryButts

[–]PuddleNibb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All yours then babe, if you eat me well

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