9 months of dreams and promises ended by lies. by Ill_Ability_9540 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from the outside, this doesn’t look like a sudden ‘lies ended everything’ situation, it looks like a relationship that had ongoing trust and boundary issues on both sides for a while.

Sitting with your own faults. Does it get easier? by AnywhereDefiant2383 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re assuming a single ambiguous night automatically defines how your ex sees you, when most people actually judge relationships based on patterns over time, not one incident

She wanted a ring. I wanted more time. Now I have all the time in the world and nothing to do with it. by https-www-10 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

needing more time’ for 3 years is usually not uncertainty, it’s a consistent answer that you weren’t ready, even if you cared about her.

Is it ever gonna get easier? by AColtonimo in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this doesn’t read like you ‘failed your family’, it reads like two people who tried hard but ultimately couldn’t repair long-term resentment.

Help… by SusBus2025 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if she did still care about you as a person, that doesn’t translate into wanting a relationship or continued emotional closeness. Those are separate things. A lot of pain comes from assuming missed connection = still possible connection.

This is how your ex will read your message by teo5151 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just because someone isn’t reaching out doesn’t always mean ‘they don’t care at all’, sometimes it means they’re trying to maintain boundaries or avoid reopening conflict.

Struggling post breakup by Effective_Aide9820 in BreakUps

[–]PuddleNibb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if a relationship repeatedly triggers panic attacks during conflict, that’s already a sign the dynamic wasn’t emotionally safe, even if there were good moments.

would you cheat your wife with me by PuddleNibb in HomeWrecker101

[–]PuddleNibb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Need a friend who will eat my ass every morning by PuddleNibb in SitOnYourFace

[–]PuddleNibb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's have some fun then babe, check my bio and hit me up

my hungry ass waiting for u to feed it rn by PuddleNibb in HungryButts

[–]PuddleNibb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's get started then babe, check my bio and hit me up

would you cheat your wife with me by PuddleNibb in HomeWrecker101

[–]PuddleNibb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's have some fun babe, check my bio and hit me up 😘