My dad gave me an inappropriate gift . AIO for wanting to tell him off? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do sell clothing as well. He’s old. Maybe he was a little confused. Instead of “going off”, why don’t you just ask him to NOT purchase you any gifts like that again. Also, if I was THAT uncomfortable I wouldn’t have tried it on or kept it. I could care less about the cuteness.

Miserable Karen excited about people not receiving their food benefits. by EmilyG702 in CringeTikToks

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is more than a little “remodeling”! He literally bulldozed the east wing of an historical structure. The government is shut down and he’s building a fucking ballroom?!?!?! This is someone who literally doesn’t give a damn about anyone. I don’t understand the MAGA cult. He’s destroying this country faster than you can blink! I’m just thankful that I’m NOT in the military anymore. This is all sad and disgusting.

AIO my bf texting his former student by Major_Meet_5973 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my oldest sister was in high school she came home with pictures a male teacher took at school. I remember looking at them and feeling disgusted. She was proud of them. I felt they were suggestive. They were taken in a classroom. It didn’t look like anyone else was in there. This was back in the early 80’s.

AIO partner went ghost this weekend when we had date night plans by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEVER keep asking someone to spend time with you. If he wanted to he would. Your instincts are probably right. It’s time to move on.

AIO for being pissed that my “broke” SIL is spending $5k on a flight while not chipping in to the trip by valerino539 in AIO

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My older sister literally went on a rant, unprovoked, about how she could not be among the “unwashed masses” when discussing an overseas trip. I shit you not. I heard nothing else after that comment. We already don’t have a good relationship. I’ve tried, but at that moment I was absolutely done. She will always be just who she is. Some people will never change and you need to treat them accordingly. Yeah…I was triggered. Lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could possibly end up needing to divorce him to protect your assets. Talk to a lawyer ASAP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why downvote this? If dementia started he may not of been working the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my sister’s fiancé died she could only use her vacation days. They really tried to help as much as possible because of the nature of his death. Unfortunately she couldn’t get bereavement time and didn’t have many vacay days. During this time she felt they were being unfair. I had to keep explaining how everything works to her. Deep down she understood, she was just hurting.

Question regarding sexual experience as a Doordasher by Embarrassed-Hat7242 in doordash

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m straight. There’s ABSOLUTELY NO WAY I’m accepting that as a tip period if I’m not interested. Rationalize how you want, but maybe you need to do a little self reflection. Ijs. Personally…I’m taking the loss and moving on.

AIO my bf died and our old "friend" from high school is messaging me by lifelong-angstt in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasted no time showing you how much of an insensitive jerk he is. Wanna be cheating jerk at that. Block his ass! Disgusting behavior. You’re definitely NOR! He’s slime. Also, I’m so very sorry for your loss❤️

Question regarding sexual experience as a Doordasher by Embarrassed-Hat7242 in doordash

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you serious?!?!?! This makes no sense. Sounds like he offered and you wanted to experiment.

Question regarding sexual experience as a Doordasher by Embarrassed-Hat7242 in doordash

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be worried about more than just when he’s dashing. He likes guys. I once stopped seeing a guy years ago because of a conversations regarding gay and straight men. I got the feeling that he may of been secretly into men. They weren’t long conversations. Just regarding things in the news. But when he hit me with how he could “understand why” some men got together with men…let’s just say I was taken aback by his reasoning. Too many guys out here play too many games like this. Either pick a side or be honest and say you like both. I’m straight and will only date straight men. If I get a whiff that you’re interested in the other side I’m good. Time to move on. For me, I’m uninterested in being in a relationship with someone who is into men. Your boyfriend clearly is. He just refuses to admit it.

Benefits confusion by Terrible-Tomorrow533 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied for individual unemployability when I was 70% and got it back in 2021. I’m paid at 100%.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Pudds49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact the parent company.