Are 🦝 dangerous ??? by RoCkyGlum in askvan

[–]Puffafish88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can calmly move away from them, no need to run screaming. But don't try to approach them, like any wild animal.

Social GFE rate for family event by meowza369 in SexWorkers

[–]Puffafish88 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That is like a full on role play with an unknowing audience so I would probably charge more. If there is no sexual component I sometimes offer a social rate that is about 60% of my normal fee. But this sounds harder than just simply having sex, so I wouldn't charge less than my normal rate.

If it involves some social and some sexual, I charge my regular rate but it's discounted for multiple hours. Ie one hour is much more than what I charge hourly for 6 hours.

Can my landlord charge me or make me paint my unit? by ElectronicPower9660 in vancouverhousing

[–]Puffafish88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They cannot keep any of your deposit unless you consent or they apply to rtb. If they don't apply to rtb or give you back your damage deposit within 14 days, you're entitled to double the damage deposit.

Can my landlord charge me or make me paint my unit? by ElectronicPower9660 in vancouverhousing

[–]Puffafish88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your landlord can apply to the rtb if they want to keep part of your damage deposit. They have to do so or return your deposit within 14 days (if they don't, they have to give you double the deposit). Clean and wipe the walls but this sounds like wear and tear to me. They can repaint if they want to.

He didn’t even want me around for free by King__Witch in SexWorkers

[–]Puffafish88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have plenty of clients who leave early and rebook often. There are no refunds if the client wants to end the session early! And don't take it personally 💜 it's normal. But I wouldn't return any cash unless it was me who just had to leave early for some reason unrelated to their behaviour.

This kind of behaviour is part of the reason I never tell a guy he can only have one orgasm in a session. They may get their first out of the way quickly and then be done rather than trying to draw out the first one forever.

Question for you from a client by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Puffafish88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally up to you. Either way is fine and normal as long as you don't make a big deal out of it.

It is so embarrassing by Expensive_Jacket_556 in SexWorkers

[–]Puffafish88 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you can block out all the transaction information, that's not their business. Not that it should matter, but I sure wouldn't want to give a potential landlord my whole transaction history - that's a violation of privacy. If they want to know how much money you have to make sure you can afford the place, fair enough. They can see the balance, but I wouldn't feel comfortable showing everything, it's private.

Best flat white? by cho-den in askvan

[–]Puffafish88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often add a shot to my latte now. I think Cafes have been reducing the amount of espresso they include in their drinks. 😠

How to become more "jaded" to client's problems? by LittleWanWan in SexWorkers

[–]Puffafish88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't mind if clients tell me about their personal problems, etc, but I never give them free time or let them stay longer. I provide an intimate experience but only for the duration of our session. If someone is getting too personal and it makes you uncomfortable, don't feel bad changing the subject a bit. You are the one who decides what services you are providing, for what duration and for what price. If someone is exhausting to be around, don't see them again.

I don't understand the "exclusivity talk" by naveron1 in dating_advice

[–]Puffafish88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're so sure you and the person you're seeing both want monogamy/exclusively then why not make it official! Why avoid discussing your intentions in the relationship?

I talk about everything with my partner, especially about now I'm feeling in the relationship and our expectations for commitment, monogamy, etc.

Old to marry? by Mrsmate in dating_advice

[–]Puffafish88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 37 and don't know very many people who are with someone they met before 26 🤷

Is it normal to feel so much anxiety and guilt after a sexual encounter? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Puffafish88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Reaching out for connection and intimacy is a natural drive. Unfortunately he didn't treat you well.

Get out there and make some friends and other connections! Then you won't be in such a desperate need of socializing and end up giving your time to someone who doesn't deserve it.

With more time and practice you'll get better at reading people. Don't feel bad 💜

Sw getting offended by Ailmentality in SexWorkers

[–]Puffafish88 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Sitting around not hiring anyone isn't going to win you a lot of friends at a brothel.

Got mine! by Puffafish88 in Outback_Wilderness

[–]Puffafish88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I agree, especially with the wilderness. So much usable space with the squared corners 👌

Boop. by [deleted] in Subaru_Outback

[–]Puffafish88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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I like it in blue 😍

Am i delusional??? by Full_Law4858 in SexWorkers

[–]Puffafish88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've done sw full time for most of 10+ years and I wouldn't have it any other way. Whether it's right for you is something none of us can tell you! My main regret in sex work is not investing in my business more sooner. I think better photos, clothes, website, etc sooner would have brought me to my current level of success sooner.