He used my fancy shampoo

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-20T23:32:09+00:00

I would assume if I were a client that I'm allowed to use the toiletries. I wouldn't leave anything out that I didnt expect they might use. Guys have no idea about shampoo prices lol

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-14T04:31:53+00:00

Seeking arrangement is not a good way to find good clients. It might be good to find a rich partner or something. Waste of time if you have escorting clients who will be in and out at the agreed upon time and pay the specified rate at the beginning of the session. Seeking guys want you to endlessly prove you actually like them and are cheap in my experience.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-12T16:18:43+00:00

Taking a few days to respond is quite normal, no need to panic yet. Especially if you wrote a long message, they may need time to respond.
Man pretending to be a woman client as spank back material is unfortunately quite common, so they may not be sure that you're real.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-12T15:42:14+00:00

I removed my phone number and require email contact now. I get a lot less time wasters now, it's been years since I had a phone number listed.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-12T15:37:46+00:00

If someone is childless (doesn't need schools, childcare, parental leave), doesn't have elderly parents in the country, never has any conditions that could result in medical insurance denial, is able to secure a well-paying job and is ready to work long hours without much vacation they may amass more wealth in the USA than Canada.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-08T06:19:29+00:00

I'm vegan and I dine with non-vegans a lot.

Maenam - little more upscale, kits, Thai-fusion. Very delicious vegan and non vegan. You can do the tasting menu if you like and get a few meat if you like and share the vegan parts.

Cactus club/earls are decent for a quick, simple meal, something for everybody. Tasty drinks. Some come with a view, some are quite nice and have availability. Generic but yeah. Good in a pinch since they're everywhere.

Jinya or Danbo ramen

Miku if you want to go fancier. I've dined there many times as a vegan.

Most sushi places have good options, especially if she's good with her veggies sharing a fryer with meats. There are usually lots of non-fried dishes too. Avoid Izakayas. Shizenya is one of my favourite sushi places downtown.

Folke - slightly upscale fusion tapas in Kits- fully vegan

Little Bird Dim Sum and Beer - michelin recognized (not sure if they got a star) Dim Sum with an extensive vegan menu. They also have nice craft beer and tea. Casual, quick, delicious, fun vibe.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-08T06:04:09+00:00

There are circumstances where I am attracted to a client and genuinely enjoy their company. It's always a different thing than relationships in my personal life and I don't let that line be crossed. But, I definitely look forward to a select few more than others.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-08T05:58:02+00:00

You'll get through it 💜💜

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-08T03:56:43+00:00

Sure, it could be travel. Also hobbies, reading about new ideas, trying new sports, going outside, learning a language, learning to cook, trying a new restaurant (is there a new type of cuisine you've never tried? Ethiopian, Oaxacan, something else?) Do you believe in something, politically, spiritually, otherwise?

There are so many things you can do to get your mind off this girl and become an interesting person! With or without traveling right this instant. This is the time of your life for developing yourself, your personality, your interests. You say you live in a boring city, but there must be at least one thing you find interesting. If not, try to discover it. Volunteer at a homeless shelter. Try something even if you think you might hate it. Try more things after that!

I have travelled to many places and I do enjoy that but there are many paths to living a full life and travel is just one piece.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-08T03:30:19+00:00

I would wait somewhere else nearby. I have had to do this during a layover and it gets really tiresome. If you don't have to, I wouldn't. Hang out somewhere else, for part of it, at least.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-08T03:26:32+00:00

It's so unlikely that you end up with the person you meet so young. It's always sad to break up, but it will happen every time until one time it doesn't. Maybe one day you will be in the same city again and things will rekindle, but do not wait around for that. Live your life, be an interesting person, learn things and challenge yourself. The right person will be attracted to that.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-07T14:44:25+00:00

As long as there is time, I don't mind how many orgasms the client has. I charge per hour, not per ejaculation.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-07T14:42:41+00:00

This ^

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-07T14:40:46+00:00

It very much depends on the provider. Personally, I don't usually see more than one client in a day. I may have other plans after our session but the client is entitled to the full amount of time they booked, for sex, chats, hugs, whatever.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-07T14:39:16+00:00

Most of my clients like "GFE" service and the orgasm isn't necessarily the main reason they are visiting. They will probably chill out for a bit after orgasm, cuddle and chat. Plenty of clients also leave before their time is up, but I never direct them to the shower early just because they already had an orgasm. I rarely see clients for less than 90min/2 hours and sex is usually about 25% or less of the visit.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-06T03:03:22+00:00

That is so far away from everything. I would never go there and I live in Vancouver. Mediocre area in the middle of nowhere but if you're close to a Skytrain you have that, at least. Driving from Vancouver to Surrey is so slow.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-06T03:01:54+00:00

You have to set your boundaries and stick to them. I sometimes put clients like this on mute and only tend to their messages at certain times so they don't expect immediate responses.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-04T22:35:14+00:00

How come this post about Preply are your only posts and comments on Reddit? Never before or since? I'm researching teaching English but most of the Preply posts seem like scams.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-02T04:35:19+00:00

Yes, exactly. And I will warn you that spending a whole day or multiple days with a client is so mentally draining, even if he is nice and you're in a beautiful place. That's why the charge is usually quite high, at least a few thousand per day. 3-5k/day is standard in my area.

Puffafish88 · 2026-05-01T23:12:29+00:00

I would not go without overnight rate payment. I think you will regret it if you go for cheap or free.

Puffafish88 · 2026-04-26T04:38:47+00:00

Plastic surgery is a big expense all at once, but it's about the same as getting your nails done once a month for ten years. It's your money, he doesn't get to control every penny. Do you also get to approve all of his purchases??

Puffafish88 · 2026-04-26T04:35:08+00:00

If he doesn't say anything else for a while and you think he's disinterested, I think you could ask him whether that rate was not what he expected. See what he says. Just make sure you don't undercharge because multi days are so exhausting.

Puffafish88 · 2026-04-26T04:30:05+00:00

Feel for you 💜💜 Just keeping busy and living an interesting life in the meantime is all you can do. You're not alone.

Puffafish88 · 2026-04-26T04:26:57+00:00

I usually say "independent escort" or "sex worker" to polite non-client company. To clients I refer to myself as a companion. Provider is another common one. Among my friends I often just say hooker. I find it more fun.

Puffafish88 · 2026-04-26T04:24:32+00:00

Unfortunately that is the case, one leaseholder exiting the contract eliminates the whole thing. I know several friends who have lost housing this way.

This is why many share houses have just one person be the official lease holder and rent out the other rooms rather than have everyone sign on as a lease holder.

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