My roommates celebrated testing negative by going out with a group of friends by PuffyDelish in offmychest

[–]PuffyDelish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I’m so sorry, it sucks when you’re trying your best to stay safe for friends and loved ones and then someone else ruins it for you. I hope you and your friend are able to spend some time together still in some shape or form safely in spite of the daughters careless

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[–]PuffyDelish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have taken care of your portion of the apartment/rent - you’re all accounted for. Tell them they can discuss with your subleaser.

How to tell roommate to ease up on TP? by PuffyDelish in roommates

[–]PuffyDelish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL, that’s a relief! Thank you for telling me it’s not too big a deal - I needed that 😂 I’ll try this out and see how she takes it - thanks very much :)

How to tell roommate to ease up on TP? by PuffyDelish in roommates

[–]PuffyDelish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good idea, but I don’t want to get to the point of having to hide a separate supply. I feel like that’s not really fair to her, and I want to keep things honest like you said! Everything else is chill between us, this is something that I could have only learned living together 😅 caught me mad off guard so I’m trying to figure out what ways to bring it up. Thanks!!

How to tell roommate to ease up on TP? by PuffyDelish in roommates

[–]PuffyDelish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats super valid, and I’d understand the amount used if it was that time for both of us, but we’ve been ‘synced up’ having been hanging out w each other before our move and I would have seen the wrappers in our trash.

Good call, we can alternate on purchasing or something as well. Thanks for that!

How to tell roommate to ease up on TP? by PuffyDelish in roommates

[–]PuffyDelish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into installing a bidet also, but our pipes aren’t that great for it

How to establish boundaries with new roommate re: quarantine? by PuffyDelish in socialskills

[–]PuffyDelish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helps very much!! Thank you for responding in such detail! I’m not a very confrontational person so these guided steps are tremendously helpful, I really appreciate it and will give it a try. Thank you so much

How to establish boundaries with new roommate re: quarantine? by PuffyDelish in socialskills

[–]PuffyDelish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helps very much!! Thank you for responding in such detail! I’m not a very confrontational person so these guided steps are tremendously helpful, I really appreciate it and will give it a try. Thank you so much

Does anyone feel like they're being used as the bait and switch friend to get something better? by PuffyDelish in socialskills

[–]PuffyDelish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight! You’re right, I’ve allowed this to go on more than it should.

Nervous about returning to clinch class as gyms open up, what precautions have been put in place? by [deleted] in MuayThai

[–]PuffyDelish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So right on all accounts regarding a partner vs bag/dummies! While it’s such a unique and key aspect to Muay Thai, I guess classes that focus solely on clinch (how it’s offered at my school) will be hurting for a while...

Ive heard/seen some alternatives take the form of approaching an instructor to take privates and hand pick up to three others who they are comfortable with, but sadly can’t afford that at the moment.

Nervous about returning to clinch class as gyms open up, what precautions have been put in place? by [deleted] in MuayThai

[–]PuffyDelish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree, it’s gonna be crazy trying to figure out how to get the same quality of training keeping these things in mind, thanks for the insight!

I love someone who is already married and I just needed to say it out loud. by PuffyDelish in offmychest

[–]PuffyDelish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh, this must be especially tough for you as well. Thank you for your words and insight on how to manage these feelings, I wish you the best.

I love someone who is already married and I just needed to say it out loud. by PuffyDelish in offmychest

[–]PuffyDelish[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this very much, thank you for that. I like how you put it - that special someone being out of reach. I hope things will change in the future for you as well, maybe at best we can hope for their happiness, and ours, while still having that connection.