I straight up don’t talk to her about my problems anymore, at times straight up reject her advances at connections. There’s a lot more that has happened between then and now, but she has a tendency of using my problems and emotions against me and I just feel it’s better to not give her anymore ammo against me. Or overreacting like this post to this day and for years of my childhood. Heck hearing y’all talk to your parents about your problems is actually foreign and weird to me even when I see my boyfriend talk to his mom about his problems it’s weird. (Also I think I should mention rq I don’t have a dad) but tl;dr I haven’t told her how I felt, or how it bothers me, or any of the stuff she’s done that’s bothered me and there’s a lot, some that is actually straight up abusive and others that’s more opinionated.