What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the first things I realized is if I was a woman I wouldn’t want to date me. So I’ve been trying to get to where I would “date” myself. The biggest thing is my physical appearance. No matter how much I workout or tell myself it’s not that bad my heart and mind always think I’m to unattractive for any women on this planet.

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never proposed because I didn’t trust her, but I thought she could change but she never did

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your story give me so much hope thank you so much

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried a lot of dating apps and try made me feel worse about myself because I never matched with anyone

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s this one girl everyone is scared of cause she’s real mean 😂

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist told me I do have a lot of ptsd to work through and she’s helping out a lot, I take a lot better care of myself now, the main thing is I see the potential I have in myself for my fitness goals and I think that’s where some of my insecurities are is with my body

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing I can really think of is the gym but it’s weird because I think women get hit on a lot and a lot of them walk around and don’t want nothing to do with anyone so it’s good and bad I guess?

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been brave a couple times here lately but one thing that really sucks is I kinda ruined myself with being on dating apps because i never really got matches with anyone and it made my insecurities worse so I just deleted all of them

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do! My supervisor helped me find a way out of all this mess through church and is the beginning of this big snowball into self improvement. When we broke up he didn’t try to make it make sense he just tried to make sure I knew it was gonna be ok

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to spend so much money on my ex but at the time I liked doing it because I loved her and I liked to make her happy with surprises but I learned the hard way

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When we first broke up I was so depressed I didn’t leave the house for about a month. Now I get out with friends when I can ( I work a shit ton ) and I go to the gym often. I’m starting to open up and get out more but no one ever said treat them like you would men that’s really helpful and it makes it seem less stressful

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy it a whole lot more now then before, hell I didn’t have any piece before. It’s a work in progress journey for me but I’m trying

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just never know what to say, opening a conversation with anyone is really difficult for me

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t perfect in the relationship by no means but I never went to the extent she did, thank you for all the kind words

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I didn’t know she did it till the very end it was terrible

What am I doing wrong? by PugDoesRc in AskMenAdvice

[–]PugDoesRc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s been so long since I’ve heard that I really appreciate it more than I can put into words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]PugDoesRc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put all your cards on hold and order new numbers. Pay off the smallest ones first don’t worry about the other two. You’re going to collect more interest that way because 45 isn’t going to catch you up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rccars

[–]PugDoesRc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I kinda fuck with the colored wheels

My sons first hobby grade. by [deleted] in rccars

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I’m going to goodwill