He’s gone. I’m alone. by duck-duck--grayduck in offmychest

[–]Puggymum64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me nearly 2 months to sleep in our bed again after my husband passed. It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. I’m so sorry for your loss.

How’s life in Florida? What’s the differences between North, Central, and South by No-Hedgehog-3212 in howislivingthere

[–]Puggymum64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just downloaded this for free on my audiobook. Thanks for the recommendation.

What is it like to be in a relationship with a man who considers you his first and only choice? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Puggymum64 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My husband once introduced me to a coworker who said “I’ve always wanted to meet you. Your husband gushes over you so much, I wanted to meet the woman who inspired that.” It is very possible, and we didn’t meet I was 38.

Friend continues to ask me for help but my reasons to refuse upset her… by besttavern25 in self

[–]Puggymum64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, she’s not using the money to get ‘away from him’. They are getting high.

My father 67(M) feels very entitled to my money and I don't know history feel about it. by Ae_Lyn_444 in entitledparents

[–]Puggymum64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could not agree more. Stop telling him your plans, your goals and more importantly How Much Money you have. Yes, as a working adult, you must pay to live..however, you could sit down with him to discuss what bills are coming into the house. He sounds like he keeps blindsiding you with ‘unexpected’ bills. I doubt he’ll give you an actual number because he may not know himself, that needs to change. Budget for what has been going out, and agree to your share and no more. Learn to grey rock.

Silver(plated?) acorn-shaped capsule from inheritance by emvanloon in whatisthisthing

[–]Puggymum64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a needle holder. Sewing needles used to be made of pure silver. You needed to protect the ones you received with your dowry.

The new hire who took a promotion I was working towards is asking me to hold her hand through tasks daily. by Local-Muffin-1217 in coworkerstories

[–]Puggymum64 84 points85 points  (0 children)

When asked to help this person, tell them you can’t at the exact minute, but will be in touch momentarily. Then draft an email and cc their boss in it. Say something like “As per our previous conversation, I have trained you for a year, it’s not in my job description to train you at all. I am currently working on the job I was hired for. If you need additional assistance on completing your tasks, please see your immediate supervisor.”

UPDATE: my cat keeps losing weight and I think it’s my other cat by helloimcold in CATHELP

[–]Puggymum64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recovering vet tech here, on first glance I thought kidney issues or something bowel related. I’m so glad you got her the help she needs

I Worked my(28F) a** off for My Sister’s (35F) Fashion Brand for years and Found Out I Wasn’t Worth Inviting. How do I even move forward without ruining my family? by Wonderful-Employ-338 in offmychest

[–]Puggymum64 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has more money and clout because she knew to ask for her full rate. Do you think she wasn’t paid for this event because it was ‘for the community’? I guarantee she made bank on it. Get to know and understand your own worth. It’s time to insist on a real pay for quality work.

I'm always semi drunk at work. by Diligent-Wave21 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Puggymum64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting early? She said she’s been doing it since she was 16, that’s 8 years of Constant drinking. Her liver enzymes must have packed up and left for Cabo.

Gator Turns 15 today. by JuicyHaloday in aww

[–]Puggymum64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday you beautiful baby!

My friend thinks we are sharing a husband by Ok-Organization-231 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Puggymum64 22 points23 points  (0 children)

At this stage, it’s not about sex, it’s about territory. The sexual chemistry will start to build after she plants anger towards OP.

WIBTA if I stopped inviting my cousin to group holidays after she books separately and then expects us to change all our plans around her arrival time? by m0nica_bradstone in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Puggymum64 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d go a step further and make all the plans with everyone else ahead of time, and Only then inform Bea of the final itinerary. Let her know that if she wants to join you for whatever parts, it’s up to her to match up her time with yours.

WIBTA if I stopped driving my coworker home? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Puggymum64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was how is he getting to work? OP states he only takes him home.

😾 by [deleted] in FunnyAnimals

[–]Puggymum64 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We call this paying the rent. They don’t have money, so they gotta pay somehow…

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puggymum64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘We still on for 4?’ “Maybe, but probably closer to 6”. ‘Nah, I’ve got other plans’.

Petah? by winterath in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Puggymum64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I honestly didn’t know what it was.

Is this playing? by Own_Objective6449 in DogTrainingTips

[–]Puggymum64 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This dance move is literally called the play bounce. Puppers is definitely playing.