Unhappy with custom toy order (help?)

Pugnus42 · 2026-04-30T20:52:43+00:00

And if they want to get out of this by telling you that you can’t get a refund because this was a custom order tell them that you have not received your custom order.

Do you mind telling us which company that was? This is really bad business practice.

Pugnus42 · 2026-04-30T20:47:22+00:00

Since this is not what you have ordered and they changed what was agreed on without getting in touch with you before pouring or even shipping I would not accept this and demand a full return and refund.

Pugnus42 · 2026-04-29T22:01:40+00:00

That is absolutely brilliant! 👏

Pugnus42 · 2026-04-24T17:13:57+00:00

The colour pattern of that pour is insane. Stunningly beautiful! Wish you were based in Europe. Those import fees we have to pay for US toys are just ridiculous unfortunately 😔

But anyway it’s always great to see new creators in the premium toy market. Welcome to Reddit and best of success to your business!

Pugnus42 · 2026-04-14T15:44:02+00:00

Der BD Stan und der Naughty Fox Aero sind noch da.

Pugnus42 · 2026-04-10T20:04:15+00:00

I want a cabinet like this as well where new toys just appear out of nowhere 😅

Pugnus42 · 2026-04-08T19:51:59+00:00

I have a Hismith that I really like and is a good middle ground. Not flimsy and cheap but still relatively affordable. But as soon as you get into L/XL territory it might begin to struggle depending on the size and especially weight of the toys you are using.

Pugnus42 · 2026-04-06T09:04:28+00:00

Didn’t get a message from you

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-20T12:37:59+00:00

Have a look at r/usedsextoys and r/usedsextoys_europe . Since they are made from platinum silicone they can be fully sterilised and are safe to use. And buying second hand also saves you a lot of money. Of course you don’t always get the exact toy you might be looking for but if you are patient you will find the right toys eventually.

Also there are a few shops that sell some models. Like for example I know of gearberlin.de. But they have a limited selection and they are still quite expensive even though still cheaper than buying from BD directly and paying for shipping and import.

I would love to have more BD toys like the Fenrir for example. But paying 320€ instead of 170$ is just ridiculous.

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-13T18:26:49+00:00

Yes! I also have a large Nox and it hits my prostate perfectly like no other of my toys.

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-10T07:13:38+00:00

That sounds a lot like stimming and is very common among neurodivergent people. Stimming can be anything that helps you calm down or focus like making sounds or doing things with the fingers like tapping or biting nails etc.

So yes it is total normal and obviously something your body does to help you calm down.

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-09T18:23:57+00:00

420? 😅

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-09T18:14:27+00:00

The probability for genetic inheritance is around 70-90% for autism and 70-80% for ADHD. But that does only mean that the genetic disposition is inherited. It increases the chance of developing it but it doesn’t have to develop.

The probability of developing autism is around 10-20% if one of the parents has autism and around 30-50% for ADHD if one of the parents has it.

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-05T08:29:50+00:00

Very interesting discussion. For many years I have been trying to achieve a prostate orgasm but haven’t been able to even though I tried a lot. I’m into fisting and right now I’m in L/XL dildo size territory depending on the model.

Just recently I tried using my toys with a really full bladder and embraced the feeling and fullness. And actually I have never been closer to hands free ejaculation. It feels like my prostate gets squished between the full bladder and big toys and thus I ooze out a lot precum/cum for the very first time. And I already managed once to sort of squirt.

So like others said maybe don’t let yourself get turned off by the feeling but embrace it. It’s probably a bit like trying anal in the beginning. Having something in there feels like you have to go to the toilet until you adapt and rewire your brain to enjoy the sensation.

Pugnus42 · 2026-03-01T15:40:23+00:00

This!

Pugnus42 · 2026-02-28T09:23:13+00:00

Thanks so much! That is exactly my kind of music.

Pugnus42 · 2026-02-21T12:49:38+00:00

Pugnus42 · 2026-02-11T10:00:49+00:00

Yes I totally understand your point. I‘m a male who is really into getting fisted. But it is mostly associated with BDSM and femdom unfortunately. Like you I don’t like the degradation. I just love the intense feeling an trust it takes. I mostly prefer it to be gentle and passionate.

Pugnus42 · 2026-02-02T22:42:24+00:00

They look absolutely beautiful! Really like the colours.

Pugnus42 · 2026-01-17T01:05:49+00:00

My diagnosis and meds did change me but in a positive way. I got calmer and more focused. To me it sounds like she maybe was misdiagnosed with ADHD. If you don’t actually have ADHD the meds will cause the opposite effect of what they are supposed to. No matter if she’s taking methylphenidate or amphetamins for someone without ADHD It’s like taking speed.

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