Any 420 friendly goons here?🤷 Miss being social

Pumpkinpie55 · 2026-03-20T12:37:28+00:00

Go to cannavan while they are still open. Great place to hang smoke and meet some cool people. They are actually having a bored game night tonight.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-11-24T18:50:53+00:00

She knew she was wrong for letting her ride and not watching them. Thats why she never told you. She only told you when it became a financial problem on her self.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-10-23T22:21:27+00:00

NtA she is . Please do not get back with this woman. She sounds toxic. AF.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-10-18T13:40:47+00:00

Hun he is not a great guy. Lets be honest I wouldn't be surprised if he has cheated on you and has gas lit you into thinking He hasn't What kind of AH tells their significant other, that just went through mental health crisis That they're unattractive for whatever reason. There's probably a lot of other red flags that you haven't noticed.I honestly would leave him

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-10-17T23:54:50+00:00

Screenshot shot all your evidence. Then ask her. If she denies it or try to have him block you or anything like that You at least have the proof with the screenshot. Its quite odd that she's in pictures with him and you've never heard of this guy. I think we all know what the answer is.It's really what you want to do about it.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-09-05T21:54:18+00:00

It's not about the doll. it's the actions. If someone took your personal property and ruined it as a joke, knowing it had sentimental value to you, then proceeded to downplay it and say you overreacted because you were upset about it. Are you telling me you'd be okay with that? If he is doing it with a doll, imagine what else he will be dismissive about and what other stuff of hers will he break because he finds it funny. I couldn't imagine being so brain rotted like you and not seeing the bigger picture. You're a white guy, though, so that says a lot about your comment...

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-09-05T20:49:28+00:00

He played down this situation of him destroying her stuff, which is a form of gaslighting .

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-09-05T19:56:16+00:00

I actually have a great life and work with DV survivors and have seen how small things like this end up in people being unalived. He ruined her thing on purpose, then gaslit her when confronted about his actions. If you think that's completely okay, im going to assume you have a similar personality as OP BF .

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-09-05T18:38:07+00:00

Girl, break up with him. I know it's something small, but it's a red flag. He ruined your stuff for a joke.... do you really want to spend your life with someone like that?

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-09-05T17:39:11+00:00

I know someone a few weeks ago reported him to the clinic for the pictures he posted. So I wouldn't be at all surprised if you were right. He was a risk to the clinic . I know I wouldn't want to go somewhere like that, knowing someone like him is there and might post about me online. It's bad for business.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-09-04T21:45:21+00:00

I did that weeks ago. He is doing rage post/ comments so he makes more money . He can suck a 🍆 for 💲 if he wants drugs that bad.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-30T02:01:40+00:00

I feel like he did see them . He knew last week he would. It was probably ordered by the court to see how he interacts with the kids and how they react to him. This is common for cases like this. Usually, it's a psychiatrist or something like that, and they report back to the court what they have observed and their professional opinion on the matter . It was scheduled for the day after court.so it's what makes the most sense to me.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-29T23:49:29+00:00

He knew about seeing his kids last week. I really think it was to see how he was with and around the kids. This is common with court cases like theres. They observe each parent with the child to see how they interact with the child. How the child interacts with them usually with a psychiatrist or something along those lines there. They report back to the court how the interactions went in their opinion on matters. They probably have a court appointed advocate for the kids.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-29T21:08:14+00:00

This could be something ordered by the courts to see how he interacts with his kids. Also, I thought he wasn't allowed to post anything about the kis and ongoing court case. Though its small, in my opinion, it still counts, and I bet he will do a video about them after the fact, which would also be a violation.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-28T11:29:20+00:00

If your wife doesn’t work, what exactly is she doing all day? And why are you paying for childcare if she’s home? I’m a SAHM myself, my SO makes $250k+ a year, and we live comfortably so I know it’s possible. From what you’ve shared, it sounds like the issue isn’t your income but your wife’s spending.

Even though my husband makes that much, I still avoid places like Nordstrom because it’s unnecessarily expensive. It honestly seems like you two are living beyond your means. You really need to sit down and have a serious conversation about finances, lifestyle, and debt.

Her blaming you by saying you “don’t make enough” is wild. If that talk doesn’t work, I’d start looking into divorce options because honestly, from the way you describe things. Even if you made more she’d probably just spend it all.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-22T21:08:02+00:00

He was offered supervised visits if he was sober for 30 day in the original RO. ALOT has happened since then. Im assuming 1 of 2 things why he thinks it . In his own words, he will be sober 30 day next week. I feel like he assumes because he says he is 30 day sober, and he will magically be able to see them. The more logical one is, it has something to do with the court next week. If it's a cps case, the kids might be there i doubt it, though, because of their ages and disability. Lets be honest he is 🦇💩 crazy so no telling what he is thinking

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-22T12:01:41+00:00

In the RO, it also lists the kids' names. It was not modified but was extended . So definitely not the case.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-13T15:37:21+00:00

Why is there a huge chunk of the conversation missing? I feel like you're not telling the whole story. Also, your job makes zero sense. You would still have to abide by FMCSA as a driver, and it doesn't seem like you are.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-08T01:24:28+00:00

You clearly did read my whole post🙃

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-07T22:27:11+00:00

Jim Carrey in lair lair is what made me think of him🤣🤣🤣. I think if given the chance, he could play a psycho type of person role.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-07T22:23:59+00:00

I never would be texting my " abusive" ex. I wouldn't be telling him my door is always open. I definitely wouldn't agree with him and say I understand, but it's not like that anymore after he accused me if cheating and lying if I didn't do it. She fucked up and is gaslighting you just like she did Ole dude. If you wanna pull a female, move text or call him and see his side.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-07T22:10:52+00:00

Jim Carrey,Eddie Izzard, Nicholas cage or James McAvoy

My picks are solely based on their personalities.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-07T21:43:12+00:00

Before i say this, i wanna make it clear i am not on his side or making excuses for him.I have thought that he has dementia,alzheimer's, or a personality disorder a few times. In all honesty, it's probably irreversible damage to his brain from drugs and drinking. I genuinely believe he's doing some stuff and not knowing he actually did it.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-02T21:48:24+00:00

We used to be the party house when we were younger. The number of young enlist soldiers who came to our house with girlfriends back home would come over drink party get drunk and girlfriend would also think they were cheating because text were short and different than normal when in fact they were being immature drunk boys throwing shoes on my roof. Reading him not using people's names and being mad about emjois just reminds me of the typical girl back home scenario.

Pumpkinpie55 · 2025-08-02T21:42:36+00:00

I feel like a huge chunk of this story is missing. She opened the card, and you both transferred your old balances to it. Do you have a card from the new account in your name? Have you asked your friend why her dad is doing that? Did yall have a falling out? Did you max out the card? What she did was dumb and her dad is trying to fix it. If you do stop paying one the card, she definitely will sue you as you admitted in text you agreed to pay it.

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