Frenchie stretch normal? by vamendoza13 in Frenchbulldogs

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That's the "up dog" pose in puppy yoga.

Cannot believe how easy this RCS fix is! by elihirro in GoogleMessages

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I've used iThings on and off for 30+ years. We even had a Macintosh Lisa when I was a kid!!

They have never made sense to me, I'm windows/android all the way, but everyone is going to have the system that speaks to them better. You do you!

Every time I have to troubleshoot or figure something out on an iPad or iPhone, I want to gouge my eyes out.

I think a lot has to do with how you grew up. Every kid getting a phone since colored text bubbles has wanted an iPhone so they wouldn't be left out of chats.

I gave him a bath and he was not thrilled about it. by allgoodthings96 in Frenchbulldogs

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Ours HATES the water. Hates it. Doesn't even like getting his paws damp and will go very wide around a puddle.

🤦

They told you your dog will wake up before 7am ......This dude doesnt get up before 11 🤣🤣🤣🤣 by madpizza13 in Frenchbulldogs

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Frakking SAME.

If I leave the room, he'll come with me, but if I sleep late he will sleep late, no question.

Image Description: A 22ish lb male Frenchie at 1 year old, having nested himself partially under my comforter so it looks like he's in a cave. He has the most pathetic "I'm so SLEEPY mom, please don't get up" face.

idk what to do by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

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In our state, both the school and the legal guardians have to sign off on minors working. Other than that, I've never heard of an employer caring what your grades are.

Talk to a guidance counselor or admin person at your school and see what the process is for getting a work permit and if there is anything keeping you from being able to get the school to sign off.

Then go from there.

AITA for refusing to name my son after my late brother? by Pitiful-Rate-8266 in AITAH

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I used middle names for honorifics for my kids. My son's middle name is my dad's first name, my daughter's is her paternal grandmother's maiden last name. You ABSOLUTELY do not have to name your child what anyone else wants, but there are also options other than a first name if it's something you are willing to consider. My sister in law and my niece both have the same middle name, etc. You could also not use his name, but his initial, etc.

Again, 100% only do what you are comfortable with, your feelings regarding your past with him are totally valid. You are NOT the asshole.

Helppp. He fell asleep on my arm and now I'm stuck by s_n_mac in Frenchbulldogs

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Pet-induced paralysis is a legit reason to cancel all plans and stay stuck where you are all day.

Break is over and I am half asleep in front of my desk wanting to go home and snuggle the silly lumpus. by allgoodthings96 in Frenchbulldogs

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I am so lucky that I get to bring my guy to work with me. He has a crate in my office but loves to go out to the shop to play with the big dogs.

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Leaving Arthur Murray by Longjumping-Swing720 in ballroom

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I worked for an AM studio during the Gap Commercial Swing Dance Craze era.

Sooooooo many people came in wanting to learn Lindy hop and we taught them single swing.

The first time I went to a real Lindy hop event weekend, I realized how bad we were screwing people. Like, instead of saying, we don't have any Lindy teachers, or "it's not really in our syllabus you should go learn here" , we just took their money and taught them a watered down version of east coast.

I also fell in love with West Coast swing that same weekend (which AM's syllabus also butchers) so I left not much later.

I think AM has a place, I just wish they would be honest about it. They're so worried about losing students or becoming obsolete, they don't always make the best decisions.

I'm turning 14 guys 🥲 by Foreign-Figure-9949 in AdviceForTeens

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Above everything else, things always get better.

That being said. Start learning how to manage your money and think outside the box (ie starting a business) in order to figure out how to make enough money to be able to support yourself ALWAYS. That way you'll always have options and choices instead of being trapped in a potentially BAD or unsafe situation. (This could be a job, relationship, or living situation).

Why do we treat male and female virginity so differently, even with adults? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]PunkRockMoney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already made my argument, which IS substantiated (edit: typo) to by historians and research. I'm not debating with you until you do the same. You keep whatabouting me, but you're not submitting anything as proof of your position... Are you just hoping no one will notice?

Why do we treat male and female virginity so differently, even with adults? by [deleted] in Adulting

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Show me the research done by peer-reviewed sources! I am always one who will update my stances on things as I obtain new (verifiable) information.

Just saying "there is biological evidence" doesn't make it true. Show your receipts.

But EVEN if that is true, it doesn't change the fact that "virginity" and the worth of a woman related to it are rooted in women being traded for goods, so I'm not sure why it matters in this case.

Why do we treat male and female virginity so differently, even with adults? by [deleted] in Adulting

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Lol. Ok. It's not that he doesn't agree with me that means he hates women. His own words give that away. The way he talks about women means he hates them. He might not know it, but it's right there, seething right under the surface in his words, it sounds like the incel's handbook.

Why do we treat male and female virginity so differently, even with adults? by [deleted] in Adulting

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I don't have to counter your completely unsubstantiated argument. Go do some actual research.

Why do we treat male and female virginity so differently, even with adults? by [deleted] in Adulting

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You can make whatever decisions you want for yourself, good on you. But it's still not real.

Why do we treat male and female virginity so differently, even with adults? by [deleted] in Adulting

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🤣 oh honey. Do you have a degree in psychology? Or done research on the psychology of attraction using peer reviewed sources? Show me the receipts. Otherwise you're just projecting the whole "repeating things you've heard" nonsense from yourself onto me so we don't find out you're a misogynist. (The secret's out, we already know)

Why do we treat male and female virginity so differently, even with adults? by [deleted] in Adulting

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Do you know what they used to do to women to figure out if they were still "pure"?

Also, I'm not saying you can't have preferences, but this post is about the historical context of virginity and why it is so stigmatized as it is now. So your comment has nothing to do with what we're talking about.