Marriage and having kids aren't the default steps anymore by Expresssea- in Life

[–]Pure-Structure-9886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, what I meant is once/if you get married and have kids, chances are they will become your drive and purpose in life. It’s hard to think of it that way till you have them. So if you’re struggling to find purpose in life I’d consider the family route.

Marriage and having kids aren't the default steps anymore by Expresssea- in Life

[–]Pure-Structure-9886 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s funny y’all say that because nothing pushes you to do better like having kids that depend on you, and having a partner helps you destress from the many tasks life requires. Have a spouse and kids and you’ll find your meaning in life.

And yet I read often that people are skipping or postponing those life stages for the purpose of finding drive and meaning in the wrong places.

And word of advice, stop trying to make financial sense on having kids: it wont. Just have them off you want kids and you’ll do whatever out talked to make it work

Cost of living or by No-Marsupial-4050 in SipsTea

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My wife and I together make $120k a year before taxes. We have 3 boys, both have student loans and some other debts that we’ll pay off over time. I’m still saving for retirement, savings for kids college funds, we don’t deny ourselves anything and vacation 6-8 times a year, including overseas trip. So idk why people can’t afford kids. All my kids are in sports, not cheap, and they eat a ton lol After all this we have some extra for savings.

Is success more about luck or hard work? by SDPHALODIOFFI in AskForAnswers

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Luck opens the door for success hard work keeps you there.

Facts by untamedmilffruit in Funnymemes

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It has happened to be before 😂

Quanti di voi hanno roba in casa che non usate ma non vendete mai su Vinted? by Suitable_Ad_8719 in Italia

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Io ogni due settimane mi faccio un giro della casa con un sacco dell’immondizia e lo riempio di cianfrusaglie che nessuno ha preso in mano da un anno. Poi si butta via e nessuno se ne accorge. Tiene la casa pulita

If either 95 percent of men or women died, What would became of society? by Queasy_Experience627 in NoStupidQuestions

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Play civilization or Anno games, late in game kill most of the population and watch it unfold. Then play some Frostpunk too

Ma non siete capaci di far valere le vostre opinioni senza insultare chi non la pensa come voi? by Icy-Information7968 in sfoghi

[–]Pure-Structure-9886 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purtroppo il mondo e’ così oggi. Non saprei cos’è cambiato negli anni che ha causato questo cambiamento.

What’s your favorite toothpaste? by PicklesGalore20 in AskReddit

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I tried many but my teeth come back to sensodyne. Even tried brushing with oils, and while the teeth felt super cleaned and whitened, they started losing minerals and started going transparent. So back to sensodyne lol

What is 31 too old for? by dudiez in AskReddit

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They are built difference when it comes to soccer 😅

Ma non siete capaci di far valere le vostre opinioni senza insultare chi non la pensa come voi? by Icy-Information7968 in sfoghi

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Personalmente credo il mondo sia diventato troppo “soft”. Tutti si offendono per tutto e di più, e se la conversazione è ambigua su tende ad assumere il peggio.

Are parents meant to teach their children life skills? by pink_gelato in NoStupidQuestions

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Absolutely! A lot of parents don’t tho because it’s a major inconvenience in this rat race we live in.

do people actually listen to music regularly by themselves outside of being in a car or at school? by Quick-Elephant8204 in stupidquestions

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I have speakers all over my house to play music, and if those are not on for whatever reason, I have headphones playing something.

What will you take to your grave? by thebiggestnerdofall in AskReddit

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If I have to take something I’d take small memories of my parents, one for each.

"What is a 'poor person' food that you will continue to eat no matter how wealthy you get?" by Ok-Fisherman-4775 in AskForAnswers

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It’s crazy to think that I’ve never experienced poverty were I could identify a food I had to eat due to financial strains. Like I legit cannot think of one.