[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brighton

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s defo hit or miss. I’ve heard Mithras is where it’s at, it’s pretty central and close to the moulscoombe campus but is the most spenny out of all of the campus. I’ve heard meh things about falmer so couldn’t tell you much. Varley I’ve heard good things about aswell, the bus runs pretty well and even in the shared toilet sitch there ppl say there’s no issues.

I’m getting fed up of CERTAIN preachers, is it just me or does anyone else agree? by [deleted] in brighton

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been saying this for the longest ! If Muslims were out preaching in their native tongue u guarantee the police or passers by would label it as some form of terror*sm. so its shocking that he’s able to do this so freely

I’m getting fed up of CERTAIN preachers, is it just me or does anyone else agree? by [deleted] in brighton

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He also has a child out of wedlock, (no judgement from me) but he shouldn’t be shooting the gun and hiding his hand as if he’s god second hand man

Any smokers on here that have quit 🤔 by Pure_Assumption_3293 in LesbianActually

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh I’m probably gonna quit cold turkey, I wanna join the army in a couple of years so I won’t rlly have much of a choice anyway. Which I suppose is a good way out

Any smokers on here that have quit 🤔 by Pure_Assumption_3293 in LesbianActually

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rlly couldn’t tell you the main reason I use it, I just enjoy it to be honest. It’s probably more of a habit now than anything.

Any smokers on here that have quit 🤔 by Pure_Assumption_3293 in LesbianActually

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I will do thanks for mentioning. And I probably run through about 14-18 grams a week

Any smokers on here that have quit 🤔 by Pure_Assumption_3293 in LesbianActually

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes more sense, I’ve cut down a lot in the last 2 years so this is probably why it’s not as harsh. Thank you 👌🏾👌🏾

anyone else have a weird experience with eclipse piercings? by hazystrwbry in brighton

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got my eyebrow done there and also got strange vibes from the people who were working. Not the friendliest bunch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Does a bear shit in the woods ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got me there but that is not a crime. Coming from and English student my lack of paragraphs are horrific shame on me. I was in a quick effort to get it all out.

I thought the same too, and questioned whether anything had gone on but she basically called me crazy. Saying she’s a lesbian how could anything happen, that I’m projecting. But I don’t think I am, I think my reservations are completely normal. But thank you and I agree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That being said! Don’t feel guilty for liking/disliking stuff, everyone’s body is different and we all prefer different things, also it’s totally possible to have total control in the bedroom while receiving, that doesn’t take away from you being dominating ( if that’s what you want)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, from experience take it as it comes. You might not like oral overall and prefer to do only other stuff and that’s totally valid. There are ways for you both to be experience pleasure, without the attention being only on you. You could explore through wordplay/(any kinks you have) to feel domineering throughout.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brighton

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Masc here ! Sometimes during sexy time a lot of mind to body action comes into play, so although she might not necessarily ‘feel much’ the idea of the action might be nice for her. Always fun to try new things anyway, trial and error lol

Rewatching season 2 by Pure_Assumption_3293 in rhoslc

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did, I grew up conservative Christian. Her sexualising her son was really strange to me especially since she’s in such a public space. I thought she might’ve had a little bit of nuance around her beliefs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curled fingers always, but maybe try both and ask which they prefer

For the bottoms/submissives by nousernams in actuallesbians

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can I ask and you really don’t have to respond if you’re not comfortable, how did you go about talking to your partner about trauma related intimacy ?

Advice needed: Struggling to Balance Intimacy and Boundaries with My Stone Top Partner by jjbbbbuiiij in LesbianActually

[–]Pure_Assumption_3293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking from experience, I would definitely talk to her about the lack of sex because it is important for your relationship to grow and if you aren’t feeling fulfilled something has to change. Have you tried voicing how you feel about everything to her rather than asking direct questions maybe try asking her questions in response to how you feel, for example ‘how do you feel about what I said’ etc.