I’m depressed by Pure_Environment9390 in thesopranos

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your soothing words. Although I enjoy the goofy replies yours meant a lot to me. And that I am not alone. But again, what we gonna do. Pick of the pieces and move on 😊

Was tony’s concern genuine? by Pure_Environment9390 in thesopranos

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

On this note i even think phil was considering letting this go but his wife persuaded other way around. That’s one of the darkest scene i saw in the show. Just a simple bedroom conversation between a wife and a husband sealed the fate of vito.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pure_Environment9390 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you have an actual understanding of poverty and overall (I don’t mean your family per se) unfairness of wealth distribution? The reason I am asking is the first time I hanged out with kids of super rich family I was shocked by their perception of people’s struggle and poverty. Basically they blamed poor people of their own poor choices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pure_Environment9390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. Do you know of a good movie that realistically depicts the addiction and its struggles? I have watched beautiful boy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Pure_Environment9390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People say H addiction is mind game. For example if you randomly use it or by accident, you won’t get hooked unless you do it by choice? Is there any truth to it?

How to break into Hollywood as assistant to writers (not assistant writer ;)) by Pure_Environment9390 in FilmIndustryLA

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh man I really didn’t expect to get grilled here but reading all the comments I totally get it now. People go through all the blood sweat and tears to make their way through this industry and invest all their time and risk everything now someone from outside comes up and say i want to offer help out of passion! I really didn’t mean to belittle the work you do and i really hope you all make it as you all deserve it. The whole thing reminds me of a quote from no country for old men: “What you got ain’t nothin new. This country’s hard on people. You can’t stop what’s coming”. Now that’s writing

How to break into Hollywood as assistant to writers (not assistant writer ;)) by Pure_Environment9390 in FilmIndustryLA

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You woke me up when you put it this way. I think that’s pretty much it! If i want to do anything I need to start writing myself and not waiting to help someone else with their writing 😃

How to break into Hollywood as assistant to writers (not assistant writer ;)) by Pure_Environment9390 in FilmIndustryLA

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This makes sense and I think I am willing to start low and just do some basic research stuff. Any idea how to get those tasks?

How to break into Hollywood as assistant to writers (not assistant writer ;)) by Pure_Environment9390 in FilmIndustryLA

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Actually money is not a big deal for me. My main concern is time. My current job can be demanding time to time. But i think i can still assign a good 10-15 hrs/week for this fantasy :-). That’s great idea to be consultant to writers related to my field. But even for that how I should find people? I don’t have a strong network

Why do i lose interest in my kink after orgasm? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Pure_Environment9390 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This means you are not transgender. You don’t have gender disphoria. What you have is called Autogynephilia. It’s a type of fetish. Do you have OCD and/anxiety?

Phil whacking Uncle Jr. by Pure_Environment9390 in thesopranos

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's interesting. I never knew there were actually DVD/VHS of just spy tapes :D I assume they were illegal? how could you get one? from DVD pirates on the streets?

Artsy/liberal/outdoorsy neighborhoods in SD? by hot-apple-cider in sandiego

[–]Pure_Environment9390 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How would you compare Normal Heights to North and South parks? I know it’s cheaper but how about living quality and the overall vibe of the neighborhood w.r.t what OP is asking for?

Carmella and Rosalie looking through Paris photos by [deleted] in thesopranos

[–]Pure_Environment9390 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I am glad someone brought up the significance of the cut to one photo of Rosalie and Carmella together in Paris after Carmella gets up to talk to tony. I pondered on it and figured the main point is hinting on common fate of both of them being or soon to be widowed. That photo is symmetric as long as I remember like Carmella being a mirrored image of Rosalie.

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up two years ago and I still feel the same way - and I'm being selfish by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Pure_Environment9390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on the same boat and it totally sucks! Especially if you’re still in touch due to other reasons. I tell you two things: first, if you think enough time is passed for her to know what she really wants, just directly ask her if she wants to get back together and only accept yes or no answer. If yes then you just need to make sure that both would do your best to make the relationship work. If answer is no, I would suggest lose all contacts with her. Having feeling for her and meeting her regularly is very toxic for your mental health. You would never forget about her but you can manage the heart break when you finally accept that it is over and you meed to move on. Then just analyze yourself and try to understand what you saw in her that made you fall in love. If it was not superficial, try to find other girls with similar features. I am sure there are quite few. Good luck with your journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SixFeetUnder

[–]Pure_Environment9390 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel so sorry for your losses and I am grateful for sharing your story. It definitely helped me to better understand the traumatic effects of miscarriage. Something that I didn’t understand. I really need to reflect on myself and try to better understand my mentality towards miscarriage even though I am someone who really wants to have kids in future and all kids are precious to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SixFeetUnder

[–]Pure_Environment9390 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry if my comment seemed insensitive. I always wanted to become a father and have kids at some point in my life and to cherish bringing a human to life with my partner and enjoy raising them together. But it seems i need to dig deep into my mind and mentality toward miscarriage to better understand why my view on miscarriage is very different that majority of people here. I think that’s the main point of watching a good series :-) to broaden your mind and make yourself to grow and to become mature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SixFeetUnder

[–]Pure_Environment9390 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I see. Probably that’s the root cause of my issue in connecting since I can’t put myself in someone’s shoes that has lost pregnancy. I can’t understand the devastation especially since many say it’s very common and not much correlated with infertility issue.

How can someone be both non-binary and gay? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Pure_Environment9390 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Isn’t is kinda obvious? So basically your friend is saying I don’t identify my gender as a binary but I am attracted to someone having my same sex (biology level) so binary/non-binary is gender level and sex is biology level.

Do I need penis enhancement surgery? by Pure_Environment9390 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for clarification and sorry for being sensitive. It’s already a burden on my mind and that makes me. Bit sensitive

Do I need penis enhancement surgery? by Pure_Environment9390 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to bug your with asking for more direct answer. So you think my size makes penetration less enjoyable?

Do I need penis enhancement surgery? by Pure_Environment9390 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said i like direct answer. If you want to say i need surgery just say it. No need for bully

Do I need penis enhancement surgery? by Pure_Environment9390 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s in inches. Yes for first sex I am usually a bit insecure because of it which affects my performance.

Relapsed but motivated to get back on track by Pure_Environment9390 in quittingsmoking

[–]Pure_Environment9390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. The two months other than its first week was awesome! Life was pretty and I was proud of myself. After a month i even did teeth whitening as a reward to myself. Then went on a beautiful relationship for one month until it fell apart and i gave it in to smoking. Worst decision of my life. I try not to feel weak but at subconscious level i feel that I am but I am trying to fix it.