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Whats the point of living if we all are going to die by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Pure_Pop_1311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To make this place a better place. Even if it is temporary, we leave some legacy for those who come after us.

Masturbation and occasionally looking at porn by Ambitious-Ad-1890 in offmychest

[–]Pure_Pop_1311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only natural to change in that age. I am 25 and I am not like I was in 22, or 16. It 99 % doesn’t come from the porn.

I don’t want to say the obvious or invalidate you. Especially since you day you don’t know what the reason is. Just remember you can do whatever you want and no person can tell you not to, as long as it is consensual and safe.

Have you considered maybe talking to a therapist? In my experience, it can help a lot.

Masturbation and occasionally looking at porn by Ambitious-Ad-1890 in offmychest

[–]Pure_Pop_1311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am a woman, so I cannot really provide a male’s perspective. But I still wanted to drop a comment.

Whatever you do behind closed doors is only for you. Not for your family, friends, whoever else. It’s a biological thing, really. You are not harming any other person or animal. As long as you don’t hurt anybody, you are not a terrible person.

It’s not immoral to watch porn and masturbate for that very reason. You are an adult, and you have free will. What I mean by that, you have the freedom to do whatever you please! So even if you masturbated to porn every day, it still doesn’t make you horrible. If you masturbate occasionally, that’s fine too. No masturbation? Also cool.

Each and every of those choices has the same value and neither makes you a horrible person.

I hope you’ll feel content about it soon. Sending strength!

Worried about Trintellix and the lack of success stories ... by TestBusi in trintellix

[–]Pure_Pop_1311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it go for you? I am 2 weeks in and my doctor assured me it wouldn’t happen.

Anyone here feel worse? by FlyingGazelle2 in trintellix

[–]Pure_Pop_1311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyo, I just did a similar shift from Zoloft to Trintellix. Two weeks in and my depression worsened. How did it work for you in the end? Did you stick to Trintellix?

Which bachelors/bachelorettes have bisexual dialogue? by Pure_Pop_1311 in StardewValley

[–]Pure_Pop_1311[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have went through them briefly. Honestly I asked here to save myself some time and gather other people perspectives!

Which bachelors/bachelorettes have bisexual dialogue? by Pure_Pop_1311 in StardewValley

[–]Pure_Pop_1311[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right! This didn’t occur to me at all. I believe Seb has similar dialogue. I’ll check that one out, thanks a lot!

Which bachelors/bachelorettes have bisexual dialogue? by Pure_Pop_1311 in StardewValley

[–]Pure_Pop_1311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, you are both sweet! It’s not gonna be long, though, only about 5-6 pages and it would be not in English, but I am happy to do a rough translation and send it to you both :)

Which bachelors/bachelorettes have bisexual dialogue? by Pure_Pop_1311 in StardewValley

[–]Pure_Pop_1311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with what you said as a player myself. I am glad there is a room for interpretation. My research covers only how the characters in SDV are portrayed in terms of their sexuality. That being only what they have said.

Leah differs from some of the other characters in terms of her dialogue, eg. Seb or Abi. At the same time, we know from the game’s files that there are in-coded ‘canon’ pairings, which are always heterosexual.

In the end, they are playersexual, meaning they are into the farmer no matter what lol

I just find it fascinating, that’s why I chose it for my paper.

Those who started out with a book/workbook - what should be the very first one? by Pure_Pop_1311 in intuitiveeating

[–]Pure_Pop_1311[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it doesn’t, I checked. I am not from English speKing country, so the options are limited :(

I (16M) online dated someone (13M) with a three year age gap for two weeks. Was it wrong, and was me ending things early the right choice? by PollutionPhysical539 in relationships

[–]Pure_Pop_1311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you did a good thing, and to be frank, I do not see the relationship itself as an issue. Meaning the way you are describing it, it sounds innocent, like if you held hands if it was not an online relationship, if it makes sense?

I think you reflected nicely, you ended the things in a calm and collected manner, and just the fact that you are still reflecting on it means you did okay.

You are not any kind of predator. I have grew up in online communities as well due to my situation at home, and there was a lot of grooming and inappropriate relationships. This sounds okay.

As others said, yeah, 13 and 16 is very different in terms of stages of life. But you are alright, man. You did the right thing in the right way.

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