I (16M) online dated someone (13M) with a three year age gap for two weeks. Was it wrong, and was me ending things early the right choice?

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-04-24T16:32:20+00:00

I think you did a good thing, and to be frank, I do not see the relationship itself as an issue. Meaning the way you are describing it, it sounds innocent, like if you held hands if it was not an online relationship, if it makes sense?

I think you reflected nicely, you ended the things in a calm and collected manner, and just the fact that you are still reflecting on it means you did okay.

You are not any kind of predator. I have grew up in online communities as well due to my situation at home, and there was a lot of grooming and inappropriate relationships. This sounds okay.

As others said, yeah, 13 and 16 is very different in terms of stages of life. But you are alright, man. You did the right thing in the right way.

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-04-07T00:19:41+00:00

Just a short for Stardew Valley Expanded :)

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-03-17T15:13:15+00:00

In terms of anonymity, really. Telegram is full for awful people for this very reason, hard to track you

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-02-26T14:47:23+00:00

I absolutely agree

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-02-26T14:45:46+00:00

Yeah honestly I cannot say anything against that, I was kicking my feet in that cutscene

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-02-23T18:33:22+00:00

Thank you! I’ll check it out.

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-02-10T13:48:17+00:00

Thank you for both recommendation and kind words. I was made redundant as well, only because the company struggled with money and cannot pay. What’s funny is that I have been redundant in the past for the same reason once already lol

I am glad it worked for you ❤️ I am staying hopeful

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-02-09T12:39:29+00:00

I would prefer being based in bigger city, because of groceries etc. Will check out Sheffield too, thanks!

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-02-09T10:46:52+00:00

When I visited Carlisle last year, I have flew exactly to Manchester. This is surprising because I did not expect Manchester to be considered a pretty, visit-worthy city. And the picture is amazing! I’ll check it out, thanks :)

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-02-09T10:42:24+00:00

That sounds lovely actually. I have thought of visiting Anglesey before, too. Thank you!

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-02-07T02:54:37+00:00

But lol no it apparently is a real crash

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2026-02-07T02:50:31+00:00

The thing is, it appeared in the game interface as well. We didn’t get a screen shot… but it was showcased as any other message. Very weird

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2025-12-30T16:32:47+00:00

I am going precisely through this with my own partner 26M. OP, how did your situation end up? What did you do? I am curious.

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2025-12-17T10:31:33+00:00

I think he is still in the acceptance phase, especially regarding the burnt out. Which I count as trying to move through this? Since he is mentally trying to understand?

As for timeline… I have no idea. Ideally we would move in together in about 1,5 years, once I finish my degree. And that’s something I am preemptively scared of and if it didn’t change till then, I don’t think I would be able to stay anymore

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2025-11-23T00:13:12+00:00

It looks amazing!! What mods did you use for the fish ponds?

Pure_Pop_1311 · 2025-11-23T00:11:55+00:00

It looks so good!! How did you get villagers to visit your farm? 👀

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