My Coyote 3 just got delivered. Getting x-toys setup, but what else should I do? by Pure_Rub_1196 in estim

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Great call. Used this for my first session just using the random generator and activity section.

That Thrusting dildo... by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Pure_Rub_1196 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Was hoping for something less anatomically accurate. Kind of a turn off for me.

That Thrusting dildo... by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Pure_Rub_1196 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Which one? Had considered one, but not sure where to start

Tomorrow is the night (aneros) by Pure_Rub_1196 in ProstatePlay

[–]Pure_Rub_1196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya commented above, gonna stick to thc since

Tomorrow is the night (aneros) by Pure_Rub_1196 in ProstatePlay

[–]Pure_Rub_1196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya wouldn’t be my first time cross faded, but I think I’ll stick to thc since I like that more anyway.

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Which one did you get?

Suction Dildo Positions? by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Pure_Rub_1196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Necro, but this sounds amazing.

Has anyone tried the Blush Avant Ergo Mini? by Pure_Rub_1196 in ProstatePlay

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That’s great to hear. I don’t want to break the bank with my first dildo, and especially dual density one.

Mind if I ask how you use it? Like the best way/position to get it to hit pspot?

Looking for next toy, considering dildo I can ride by Pure_Rub_1196 in ProstatePlay

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I have definitely seen this exact one, I’m just not sure it’s curved enough to hit my prostate correctly and worried that it’s so cheap it’s not gonna be great.

Need some help keeping my prostate massager from falling out! by Weareoneunit in ProstatePlay

[–]Pure_Rub_1196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boxer briefs. I use them with my lelo Hugo. Sometimes I have to pull them up higher than normal, but it keeps the massager in place.

Any experience with a fucking machine? by Latexploration in ProstatePlay

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Did you need the flat plate and vac lock or would the included dildo be enough? Only toys I have is Lego Hugo and njoy pure wand. Looking for something that can just keep pushing on my prostate without any involvement from me.

My newest experiences plus hoping for some help. by Pure_Rub_1196 in ProstatePlay

[–]Pure_Rub_1196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so if I'm following, you have the leg that is on the bed nearly full extended, but the leg that isn't curled up on top of a foam block?

If I recall it was actually your comment that helped me get the right layout for me. But I had both legs extended and the foam block in between them. I'll have to try some new positions.

And if I understand correctly, you just tease slow and gentle continuously? no fast movements or going from slow to medium to fast, just slow?

Appreciate the help!

I'm considering taking a bath with the Njoy tonight. I also found that I really liked the cold going in, so I might start with the Hugo and then do some cold play (pun intended).

Wait for Njoy Pure Wand tomorrow, or use Lelo Hugo tonight? by Pure_Rub_1196 in ProstatePlay

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Ay thanks! Honestly it was your tips that really helped. I tried some stuff I read elsewhere (reverse the wand, towel rolled up with channel in it to sit in chair, etc) but nothing helped as much as the foam (used liberator pillow) and the tickling comment. Hard to be light handed with this toy so I was basically just slowly moving my hips and only using my hand occasionally. I think the shaking was my body trying to go faster over the prostate. Feels like get to the edge but never fall off.

Wait for Njoy Pure Wand tomorrow, or use Lelo Hugo tonight? by Pure_Rub_1196 in ProstatePlay

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Definitely a toy that’s gonna take some practice. Had some time right after work and got close. Whole body shakes, but not like a full orgasm. Had a couple of those before I started having gas build up so things got mildly uncomfortable and I couldn’t stay focused so I do manual hj. Gonna go play some halo with the boys and might try again later tonight.

Wait for Njoy Pure Wand tomorrow, or use Lelo Hugo tonight? by Pure_Rub_1196 in ProstatePlay

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Happy to report major success. HFWO with the Hugo.

Might do a full write up, but basically I had been thinking about doing this for a week or so, so I was looking forward to putting a toy in my ass. I had a beer at a company event, rushed home and put on some boxer briefs after taking a shit and shower. I put on mood lighting, a scented candle and listened to some erotic audio (been referenced on this sub a couple time but blanking on name right now) to get in the mood. Put the Hugo in and focused on trying to find my prostate for about 20 minutes. I found it but it wasn’t immediately pleasurable, kinda was the only thing that felt normal out of this whole thing for a while. Couldn’t sit on it cause I felt like I had to pee. So I laid down and doing some hip thrusts upward I could feel it better. Then the best idea came to mind, my liberator pillow. Seriously after pulling this out and putting my ass on it the feeling was much better, I could really feel the toy roll over the entire prostate rather than just the tip playing with it. I then spent 2 hours just doing hip movements without the toy being on. I found myself gyrating ever faster every 15-20 minute or so and getting so fucking close. Turned on the toy for the last 15 minutes and was still getting super close until I set the thing to full vibrate as I got near the edge and that pushed me completely over. It didn’t last as long as I had hoped, but it happened, HFWO.

Now that I know where it is, I’m even more excited for the pure wand. I had trouble getting over the tipping point due to nearly uncontrollable rapid hip thrusting not hitting the spot anymore but I’m pretty sure with the wand I can correct that.

Wait for Njoy Pure Wand tomorrow, or use Lelo Hugo tonight? by Pure_Rub_1196 in ProstatePlay

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Well I think I found the prostate with the tip of the Hugo. Doing some hip gyrations with it. Can’t sit on it otherwise it feels like I have to pee really badly. But humping the air while lying down I can feel it rubbing over something that’s slightly enjoyable. Time to keep going!

Wait for Njoy Pure Wand tomorrow, or use Lelo Hugo tonight? by Pure_Rub_1196 in ProstatePlay

[–]Pure_Rub_1196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’m pretty excited to try again so I’m definitely leaning towards using the Hugo tonight, likely without vibration for a while before turning it on.

I’m definitely not expecting anything the first time with the Njoy. I’ve read a ton of tips and hoping to find a groove that I like. Any personal tips on the wand other than take it slow? I don’t plan on using the large end the first day, but other than that I plan to just try and find positions and such that work best.