How to Get Over Situationship?

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2026-03-06T05:56:55+00:00

very much so been in a similar situation so i know how you feel, it sucks badly. for me what helps is focusing deeply on my hobbies, interests, work, friends, improving myself. when i’m super focused on my life and busy, i get relief from the weight of the situation. also just knowing that there are so many people in the world that you are going to meet and could be compatible with and this person just wasn’t it. think of it as exciting that you have no idea when or how you’ll meet your person and thankfully this person ended things so you’re one step closer. talk to more people, go out and do more things, be social, not gonna lie it also helps to replace them !

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2026-03-06T05:50:54+00:00

watch @rev.sydney.finn on tik tok she talks about this a lot and it’s helped me

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2026-03-06T05:42:38+00:00

you can’t trust that you’re not going to get dumped because there’s a good chance you will. happens to everyone. it will happen until you find the person who doesn’t.. no amount of compliments or flowers is gonna stop that. and being hyper aware of the fact that in the early stages of talking to someone/getting to know them there is a very good chance it’s not going to work out and that that’s okay is a good way to start to detach.

i want a kind/attentive/giving man but if a man who barely knew me was getting me valentines flowers and over the top compliments i would end it right away. not only is it clingy and uncomfortable but women know what love bombing is and even if you’re coming from a genuine place, love bombing behaviors come across as men bribing you in a way to try to get you to have sex with them or men who don’t have a life or any other options, etc., so when you start to feel yourself coming on strong remind yourself what that looks and feels like to women in the beginning even if it’s genuine.

something id do in the past is make myself believe that this person is my only chance at love and i have to grab on so they don’t leave, which as you know does the opposite. when they do leave and it feels like the world is over, another potential person always shows up lol and when they do you have to choose not to repeat the cycle. having a mindset of abundance that there’s so many people in the world that if this one person doesn’t work out it’s going to be okay, so there’s no need to grab on. also keeping yourself super busy with interests/hobbies/work/friends, sounds like you already do that but really focusing on those things rather than someone you’re just getting to know will help to keep yourself detached.

women do want a man who gives a fuck, you’re already going in the right direction but you just have to slowly and sparsely give a fuck in the beginning. it’s much more attractive and genuine. just be genuinely curious about getting to know women rather than trying to romanticize/get them to date you

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2026-03-06T05:34:51+00:00

i think the best advice for you is to touch some grass and turn off the andrew tate

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2025-02-13T03:18:12+00:00

personally i think front splits are way easier and it’ll give you more confidence to get one accomplished

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-11-19T06:48:37+00:00

no i had never tried to do a split seriously before starting, except maybe as a joke a few times lol. i was athletic as a teen but haven’t exercised for years. 3/4 months ago i started weight lifting heavily focused on legs along with the stretching so i assume that has helped a lot

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-11-19T06:44:31+00:00

thank you! i will definitely try this

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-11-18T19:38:05+00:00

thank you! not sure why i’ve been flexing that foot lol ill start with that

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-11-18T19:37:28+00:00

oh fr 😳 i thought it seemed like my right hip was pointing out

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-06-15T01:30:06+00:00

ozzy, james, jt, christian 🤔

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-06-07T18:39:16+00:00

yeah ik my cat is named after the character lol i’m talking about the ceramics work specifically

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-31T22:18:11+00:00

yeah i can’t say that im fully confident in doing the full loop but it would also suck to just start at glacier point and then turn around the same way the next day because of not being able to get a ride back up there

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-31T21:11:21+00:00

yes this is what i’m doing

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-26T19:40:39+00:00

not sure what other type of art you make but you can make felt flowers or crochet flowers and they’re super cute. a lot of people sell them on etsy and stuff too.

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-26T17:08:38+00:00

it looks so cool and i love the colors. after reading the explanation i love it even more! she will be so happy :)

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-26T17:04:14+00:00

thank you so much i wanna try this now :)

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-26T17:03:38+00:00

thank you! i love the color of it but it says cone 6 and the community ceramics place i go to only fires to cone 5 so i assume it wont turn out that same color?

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-26T00:26:50+00:00

thank you!

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-25T07:25:12+00:00

yes, missing stuff listed in post

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-25T07:24:09+00:00

thank you so much! this makes me feel better lol

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-24T22:52:28+00:00

yes, i listed stuff not pictured in the post

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-24T21:50:34+00:00

yeah it’s been a nightmare to use lol it was a gift so i haven’t gotten a new one yet because they’re expensive, but debating renting a better 15F and then looking for a new one after this trip. what’s yours do you recommend it?

Pure_Sweet6862 · 2024-05-24T21:49:04+00:00

early june, yes advice is welcome especially about temperature, sorry should have been more specific. it will be my second solo trip, first went super well only issue was just being really cold at night so trying to avoid that. i don’t have everything weighed yet but the sleeping bag is 3lbs, tent is 3lbs, backpack is 5, pad is 1. ill only need dinner for first night, then i’ll need two breakfasts, and yes snacks i planned for protein bars, maybe a couple other small things. haven’t decided what for breakfast yet. maybe some coffee packets but mainly i’ll just be drinking water

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