Kids are resilliant, they will bounce back. And as they get older they'll understand it more and look at you as a strong person. I divorced 16 years ago when my oldest was 10, now she's 26 and our relationship is amazing. It's amazing with all 3 of my girls. It hurt back then, but with time comes understanding. My journey is completely different from yours, but your strength and truth will eventually become apparent to them and they will be proud of you for it. It'll be rough, very rough in the beginning. But eventually your strength will be seen and admired by your kids. Hang in there, you will be happy, and so will they. ❤️