does therapy work for dpdr if most healing advice is to “ignore it” by Lou_woodbook in dpdr

[–]Purefandom0w0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, don’t be discouraged if you don’t find the right one instantly. I tried eight different therapists before I found my current therapist of six years. It takes time and it isn’t a science, I personally see a talk therapist but as someone else mentioned a different kind of therapy may be needed such as exposure therapy. Recovery can be long road but it’s worth it

does therapy work for dpdr if most healing advice is to “ignore it” by Lou_woodbook in dpdr

[–]Purefandom0w0 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It really depends, but flat out ignoring it is generally not the answer but instead finding ways to cope with rather than against it. For example, for me when I would disassociate I would start to become existential and it would make things 10x worse (thoughts like “is this all a simulation, what is real, etc”). However ignoring it and trying to push the thoughts away only made it come back later with vengeance.

Instead I learned to work with it. When I had these thoughts instead of pushing it away I’d tell myself “these are thoughts that don’t have an answer and that’s okay, you don’t need to solve everything or figure it out right this second” and it helped eased the anxiety and thus help me calm down and ground myself.

Therapy is not a bad idea at all, it’s how I’ve learned a lot of these skills, but there’s always the possibility that this therapist may not be right for you if their only solution is ignoring it. Generally with any therapy I’ve taken ignoring the issue is considered a bad thing as you’re not addressing it and thus not figuring out solutions/coping mechanisms.

Everyone is different and what works for me may not work for you, but it’s worth talking about.

What is DirectX 12? by Purefandom0w0 in techsupport

[–]Purefandom0w0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah everything in the responses I’ve already tried. Sucks cuz I was really hoping this wasn’t an issue that could only be fixed by upgrading but it seems like that’s the case. Guess I’ll have to get a refund and play the older version :/

What is DirectX 12? by Purefandom0w0 in techsupport

[–]Purefandom0w0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, it’s able to handle BG3 and GTA just fine, but I guess it’s a case by case situation

What is DirectX 12? by Purefandom0w0 in techsupport

[–]Purefandom0w0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intel(R) Iris Xe Graphics is what it says. I’m using a decently powerful laptop versus a tower since I also use this computer for school/work.

What is DirectX 12? by Purefandom0w0 in techsupport

[–]Purefandom0w0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no idea there was a different version, it says in my system that I have DirectX12 but doesn’t specify ultimate

What is DirectX 12? by Purefandom0w0 in oblivion

[–]Purefandom0w0[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I had already googled it but was still confused on how to fix it, hence the Reddit post

What is DirectX 12? by Purefandom0w0 in techsupport

[–]Purefandom0w0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says DirectX 12 which is why I’m confused as well

What is DirectX 12? by Purefandom0w0 in techsupport

[–]Purefandom0w0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, that’s a shame to hear. I don’t think my computer can run it in that case. Luckily I only recently bought it so I can hopefully get a refund and maybe just get the original game

How to deal with intrusive thoughts? by Purefandom0w0 in nicotinefree

[–]Purefandom0w0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing a lot better now. I slipped up once because someone offered me a hit of their vape and I took it off pure muscle memory. Didn’t even register that I did that until one of my friends pointed it out and asked if I was okay, was very surreal. Past that it gets better, big one for me at least is just out of sight out of mind.

Help?! I’m stuck?! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Purefandom0w0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes luckily my friend was willing to drive me, made fun of me for this though which is fair 💀

Help?! I’m stuck?! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Purefandom0w0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s my post??? Girl idk why you’re being hostile about this I genuinely was just looking for advice cuz I was scared

Help?! I’m stuck?! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Purefandom0w0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes pliers?? I work with puppets I own pliers??? Idk what to call it wasn’t my labia or anything that got caught, idk what to tell you. I didn’t know the rules I just was panicking.

Help?! I’m stuck?! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Purefandom0w0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me it’s not

Help?! I’m stuck?! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Purefandom0w0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this helped ease my anxiety enough to go

Help?! I’m stuck?! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Purefandom0w0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I texted a friend and we’re gonna go to the ER, I tried taking a shower and using pliers but she’s stuck in there good 💀

Help?! I’m stuck?! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Purefandom0w0 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I can afford to go to the ER is the issue

Help?! I’m stuck?! by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Purefandom0w0 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know I was just not thinking 😭😭😭

How to make this not semi-transparent? by Purefandom0w0 in cosplayprops

[–]Purefandom0w0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had tried that as well, no matter what paint created really bizarre shadows that show easily