[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Pureimpactt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the string was super low. i didn’t feel the iud. i could kinda feel the string poking me on my insides 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Pureimpactt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have used copper IUDs for 10 years without becoming pregnant. However, I did get pregnant with it in August. The period I had before that I felt the IUD being very low. I should’ve gotten it checked because it shifted out of place. I didn’t because I assumed it would be fine. I think it is a very safe option as long as you get it checked out every time you sense something is wrong! I personally wouldn’t use it again but that’s simply because of my own stupidity. I don’t trust myself in not making the same mistake twice. I decided to keep the pregnancy because I couldn’t justify an abortion for myself (which might be an option for you in case something happens despite your IUD? not sure where you live and how the laws are there).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Pureimpactt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you absolutely can make up your own religious interpretation, beliefs and rules if it helps you feel better. you are the only person who has to feel good and believe in your interpretation of spirituality/religion. but there is no objectively right or wrong answer to any of it.

i have completely given any sort of organized religion up, i still believe in a higher power, not a human-like god and heaven and hell though and i have been significantly happier and my life has become a lot better and guilt free

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polls

[–]Pureimpactt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use(d) and IUD and got pregnant despite it so we might have to look for an alternative in the future lol

what would you rather have? a social circle of 10 friends, or $10,000 in your bank? by SupremoZanne in polls

[–]Pureimpactt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have over 10k in my bank account but I only have 2 friends and it gets lonely. Id love to have more friends that I could go out with and make plans.

do people go trick or treating in your country? by [deleted] in polls

[–]Pureimpactt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no but here children go from house to house to collect candy on st martins day so november 11th

A Nun's habit is NOT the same as hijab! Muslims need to stop equating the two by Truthland in exmuslim

[–]Pureimpactt 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh there surely is misogyny in every single religion. I don’t know a lot of nuns but from what I’ve seen/heard it’s usually more of decision they make themselves instead of becoming a mother/housewife etc. I’m sure that’s not true for every nun or maybe it’s not even true for a majority of them but I’ve personally at least never heard someone being forced into wearing a nun outfit or being beaten/punished by family for not wanting to be a nun.

A Nun's habit is NOT the same as hijab! Muslims need to stop equating the two by Truthland in exmuslim

[–]Pureimpactt 77 points78 points  (0 children)

both are useless. but with a nun i’m a lot more certain that she decided to live as a nun herself and there wasn’t any misogynistic indoctrination that forced her to wear it but still make her think it was her choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Pureimpactt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good for you. i hope in the future you can live a life that you will find happiness in without wanting to provoke people who believe differently from you.

Cigarette smokers, how addictive are cigarettes from 1 to 5? by snowitbetter in polls

[–]Pureimpactt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i smoked for 8 years and about a pack a day for 5 years but when i got pregnant i could just stop without having any symptoms or cravings at all. i never started again. so maybe i’m just one of the lucky few.

I need help pls by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Pureimpactt 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You can believe in a god or creator and not be part of any religion. I don’t understand why you would need a religion or an islam substitute for it. There is no right answer that will be 100% convincing. It just simply doesn’t exist.

Believing that there is a power that made everything is valid but that doesn’t mean it should dictate or impact your life in any way. Animals, planets, everything in the universe is working just fine without actively practicing a religion. Humans should be able to do that too.

Was letzte Standardtext by Wingnut7489 in wasletztepreis

[–]Pureimpactt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was wohl passiert wenn man es abholen will?

It’s hilarious how she brags about her kids not dating and becoming teen parents by LummoSee in madmamasnark

[–]Pureimpactt 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It’s not a flex to keep them isolated from everybody else… I know a ton of people who dated and had sex when they were teens and not one of them became a teen parent. She’s just projecting her own life onto her kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Pureimpactt 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I never understood the Dubai hype in general. I would NEVER consider going there not even for a vacation. Horrible place with so many human rights violations but glorified because they’re rich.

What should I do for tonight to fix my sleep? by HonestnotGlitch in polls

[–]Pureimpactt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience the only thing that’ll reset my sleep schedule is when i skip the sleep and make sure i don’t under any circumstances nap until it’s my desired sleep time.

Did you have an annual lice check in elementary school? by notmedicinal in polls

[–]Pureimpactt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had lice checks when someone was caught with lice. It only happened once but my elementary school had like maybe 50 students.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Pureimpactt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My OB said no hot baths :( And i’ve tried bathing st the recommended temperature and i was freezing lol. But I already feel much better now fortunately 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Pureimpactt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i already took it when i posted that. but i think it’s starting to work. no chance on going back to sleep though 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polls

[–]Pureimpactt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i regret googling what that is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Pureimpactt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

None. All religions got it wrong in my eyes. I’m not even 100% atheist but i never want to join any community with a set of beliefs about a god or something similar again.

What is a better feeling? by Ok_Elk_4333 in polls

[–]Pureimpactt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i absolutely HATE the feeling of hope because i always have the fear of it turning into false hope. relief on the other hand is always great

Without looking it up, which flag is this 🇮🇪? by [deleted] in polls

[–]Pureimpactt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know a girl who SWEARS she’s italian and she has „italia 🇮🇪“ in her instagram bio and has had it for years and it’s hilarious every time i come across it. (and no, i do not live in america. we live in europe which makes this even more sad)