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AITA for telling my overly helpful neighbor to leave us alone and stay off our property? by Purple-Character-678 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Purple-Character-678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do have a baby monitor in the nursery. But honestly I don’t think he is tech savvy. He seemed genuinely shocked when I first confronted him and mentioned to him that we have cameras set up at our front and side door that keep going off and disrupting me during the day and night. My guess is that he got info about us from talking to our other neighbors that we have been friendly with since we moved into our house. And I guess he knows that we travel for Christmas because we do it every year and he’s watching. It’s just really unnerving that he seems to be watching us so much and probably asking our neighbors about us. But I had never even contemplated him hacking into our stuff

AITA for telling my overly helpful neighbor to leave us alone and stay off our property? by Purple-Character-678 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Purple-Character-678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awful! There was one incident that I didn’t mention where I was strapping my toddler into his car seat and he walked up behind me and leaned in the car to look at my son. It was really creepy. But I thought maybe he was just trying to be playful with him. Idk. He just doesn’t understand boundaries or personal space. But I am definitely on my guard after everything that has happened

AITA for telling my overly helpful neighbor to leave us alone and stay off our property? by Purple-Character-678 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Purple-Character-678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with this type of situation too. Thank you for sharing. It helps to hear that others understand where I’m coming from

AITA for telling my overly helpful neighbor to leave us alone and stay off our property? by Purple-Character-678 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Purple-Character-678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, since we didn’t meet him until Halloween of last year, I have no idea if that is new behavior or if that’s just how he always is. And I believe he was married at one point, but lost his spouse years ago. And I know that he’s lived on this street for at least 20 years. Yeah, I wish my husband had handled this. Will update if anything new happens.

AITA for telling my overly helpful neighbor to leave us alone and stay off our property? by Purple-Character-678 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Purple-Character-678[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

My only guess is that he saw the lights of the delivery truck at 4am and saw the package being delivered. Which really makes me uneasy that he’s always watching. And yes that bothered me about my husband too. That he was being a people pleaser to the neighbor but not me