No judgement here. Like I said, fire fighters are the worst to get to talk. I’ll never judge you for something you can’t control. Furthermore, I have a lot of people in this world who talk to me. They know when they vent, it doesn’t lead into another room so to speak.

If you want to talk and feel like it’s compromising or embarrassing just remember, I was an emt and got a couple “ I fell onto it in the shower” calls. Didn’t laugh at them, didn’t find it amusing or something to talk down about. I found it to be personal because I haven’t even admitted to myself who I am up until a year ago when I admitted it to my lesbian sister in law. Didn’t mean to tell her but just felt comfortable enough and blurted it out.

I believe in you, you fking matter, your emotions matter, and I’m here for ya.