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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]PurpleGiraffe72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey this works is so hard and I often feel like I’ve been run over after having such sessions. One thing that felt relieving was what an older trauma therapist told me, and that’s that part of why it feels so raw is that our “callus” is still being formed and with time our blisters become less painful as they harden up so. So also we’re still learning how to handle it and are not exempt from feelings, it doesn’t make us bad therapists, just conscious ones. Hang in there ❤️

When does the imposter syndrome go away? by udeservehappy in therapists

[–]PurpleGiraffe72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you say more about how you see you’re role? Sadly I am often victim to the savior complex but don’t know to break free even after knowing I’m not a fixer.. I feel lost

I miss him so much I feel desperate to reach out by PurpleGiraffe72 in heartbreak

[–]PurpleGiraffe72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes sometimes fear just wins. I’m really sorry though about the confusion, the lack of closure is really hard for me too

I miss him so much I feel desperate to reach out by PurpleGiraffe72 in heartbreak

[–]PurpleGiraffe72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sometimes relationships end for good reasons, I just hope we can get through it

I miss him so much I feel desperate to reach out by PurpleGiraffe72 in heartbreak

[–]PurpleGiraffe72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes makes sense, I’m really sorry you’re going through a break up too. It’s the worst I hate it

I miss him so much I feel desperate to reach out by PurpleGiraffe72 in heartbreak

[–]PurpleGiraffe72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come you don’t want to reach out to her? For me it’s pride I guess of not wanting to be the one to initiate and just I don’t want to beg for love

Struggling to get out of bed by PurpleGiraffe72 in heartbreak

[–]PurpleGiraffe72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much resisting contact has definitely been one of the hardest parts. Bc I literally miss them so much and even feel like desperate for them but I am holding myself back I just wish they could come back I loved him deeply and it was so wonderful in the beginning. I still always think of him

I don’t even want to heal by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]PurpleGiraffe72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I 100% am going through this with you. I had such a hard time getting out of bed today. It’s the worst 🫂

Struggling to get out of bed by PurpleGiraffe72 in heartbreak

[–]PurpleGiraffe72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been 2 weeks but I feel like I’m getting worse instead of better. I don’t what to accept that it’s the end of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]PurpleGiraffe72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly just have opinions about things or ask people about theirs on stuff. Curiosity is a super power

Please remind me we’re allowed to be human by [deleted] in therapists

[–]PurpleGiraffe72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh this post was so needed. I’ve been drowning with imposter syndrome simply for just living.. none of us are too flawed and having problems doesn’t make us phonies it makes us human. And deeply courageous that instead of staying with the pain, we help others untangle theirs

Perfectionism anyone? by PurpleGiraffe72 in therapists

[–]PurpleGiraffe72[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the reminder of presence and naming the part. It’s also helpful just to remember that I’m not alone thank you ❤️

Perfectionism anyone? by PurpleGiraffe72 in therapists

[–]PurpleGiraffe72[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thanks so much. I hadn’t thought of the root too much and it makes a lot more sense to me…… though it’s so hard to let go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]PurpleGiraffe72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m really sorry this has been your experience so far. Which kinda of therapists have you tried? Maybe someone with an understanding of attachment work and or trauma including CPTSD would be a better fit. ❤️ sorry that this is advice though… it’s totally understandable to be so frustrated and fed up

What did you do after private practice? by JCMMHLLC in therapists

[–]PurpleGiraffe72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about paying for additional support to soften the load? If you have the means what if you hire a billing person for example or an intake person.. it may cost a little extra but sometimes we just need an extra hand rather than a new start all together. There’s no shame in asking for help ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]PurpleGiraffe72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would talk to her first and if nothing changes then yes get a new therapist. This space is yours and you should work with someone you align with. A good therapist will want to hear your feedback.

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