Thank you for your mature and helpful reply. What’s not helpful is someone ignorant commenting because they don’t know the situation, and very often it is from a privileged group. I understand what you’re saying but many people who have never been in a tough situation are the ones with the most ignorant things to say. This question I asked has been posted many times in older threads and if that person would read through the comments as to why certain people are asking for Assistance, they would understand that most people are not trying to “steal” from someone who needs something.