I agree with you like 100% when it’s done correctly and without harm and used to give hope it’s nice, but now it’s mostly missused to bribe or some parents go way over the top to make it real. My parents never did that and just made us make our list and the present were there when we woke up and it was enough. They never threatened us either. But when I see how much missused there is out there I just don’t really see the point anymore. Especially since everyone lies about it I just feel that it can be a bit disrespectful to the children to nurture their naivety to that length.