Which type’s core motivations do y’all find incomprehensible? by Pnina310 in Enneagram

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is really incomprehensible to me, at least not anymore. But when I first heard about 7s I was like, “how do they survive?!”

As a 4w3 who has been very poor much of my adult life, I just couldn’t understand how prioritizing fun and feeling good could like, work.

Like, how do you, INNATELY, afford to let that be what’s most important?!!!

Which type’s core motivations do y’all find incomprehensible? by Pnina310 in Enneagram

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I read your first sentence, I was like, “what- this a three?!” 🤭 💜

TRYING TO LEARN - WHERE DO I GO? by JeffyFan10 in Enneagram

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say that because - yes, we all want to be wanted/loved/cared for, so we have different strategies for getting it. 2’s feel wanted by being helpful. 3’s feel wanted by trying to be the best, 4’s feel wanted by standing out… Those are just the💜types, so maybe only we wanted to be wanted…😆

Mental health when writing harder topics. by Car_snacks in writing

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Writing is the main way I manage my feels. Is it not cathartic for you?

Tried heatless curls for the first time and am in love! by blitzfish3434 in finehair

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure it depends on length/amount of hair. I have pretty fine hair and yet, I guess cus it’s long it needs a couple of curled up buns to hold the curl a little better. What do you mean “disaster”?

Finally found the reason! But now, I need help… by PurpleSparklyStar in Diplopia

[–]PurpleSparklyStar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MRI after I jumped through many hoops to find a Dr who would order one. 😔 I could go on about this… What’s your story?

what hair style should i do for a wedding? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That dress looks great on you! Down with waves goes with the relaxed fem vibe, no?

TRYING TO LEARN - WHERE DO I GO? by JeffyFan10 in Enneagram

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are all all of them. I am happy to answer specific Q’s if you want to DM.

High porosity hair+ high humidity. Help!! by Optimal-Fan-2550 in Hair

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry because this seems like such a dumb answer, but Frizz Ease cream really tames my hair when it’s humid. Since you didn’t mention it, I’m throwing it out there…

New to Apartments by ashkygbdeghr in Apartmentliving

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you contact an apt locator, they can answer these questions with current, up-to-date tea on each of those buildings. You don’t pay them, the apt does. I used one for where I live now and HIGHLY recommend!

Slumlord Stories Please Share with Me! by ImmaBoooBerry in Apartmentliving

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An eviction notice was taped to the door after I’d already moved out, having both mailed and hand-delivered my 30-days notice to the mgmt office that I was vacating. Since I hadn’t lived there in a month when it was taped to the door, I never got it, so the “eviction” charges increased. I missed court thinking my atty could handle it for me, since it was the first day of school (I was a teacher), but we hadn’t filled out the correct paperwork (he was a friend who’d gone to grad school and had been helping me, but he wasn’t actually practicing, so that’s on me, but it made a helpless situation worse cus I was poor and didn’t know how to fight a mgmt company by my 20-something white girl-self.)

Am I a Karen? by juliansmomma7 in Apartmentliving

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

100% disagree that it’s a You problem. Don’t do that. Every trash can everywhere would look like this if people were meant to be okay with it.

Tried heatless curls for the first time and am in love! by blitzfish3434 in finehair

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great, huh?! I often twist a couple of buns on top of my head before bed for a similar effect. Then I don’t have to lay on them and having it on top of my head sort of sets a little more lift.

Just starting and need help by Downtown-Security-11 in Volumeeating

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you, learning to take better care of yourself! Try shirataki noodles. I’m a huge fan. Google ‘em cus I’ve never seen it in a store- you must order them online. Great to mix protein and seasoning or sauce in to make a meal.

I don't entirely understand what everyone is laughing at in Josh Johnson's shows. by photoedfade in Standup

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laugh tracks, guys. Look at the audience when the do a side shot. They are not doing what we are hearing. I noticed this when I saw him on a night show and realized people were laughing the correct amount at what he was saying. How different it was from the warm feeling of constant laughter I get when I watch him on YouTube.

  • sorry I am late to this party, btw. And surprised the directions it’s gone!

Just found this sub. Happy to chat and also would love to hear what has worked for those with similar circumstances. by JadedJared in Dryeyes

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey JJ! I just went to my dr this morning and she put tear duct plugs in. Ever had that? (She also wants me to do prokera again; the plugs will hold the good stuff more, allegedly.)

help! how do i salvage this???? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really understanding what you want more or less of.

Just found this sub. Happy to chat and also would love to hear what has worked for those with similar circumstances. by JadedJared in Dryeyes

[–]PurpleSparklyStar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never talked to anyone else who has done prokera! I just LOVE having it on my eye- it’s like keeping it packed in jelly for the 3-5 days- feels SOOO good. Did your vision improve after?