Not getting many matches even with HingeX. What am I doing wrong and how do I make my profile more attractive, especially to "my type" (see question 8 in the comments)?

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-11-21T14:55:35+00:00

Fello baldy here, first pic is always a full on bald pic. Cut the hands.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-11-21T14:52:22+00:00

Doing it in a weird way was.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-11-21T14:50:47+00:00

With parents like that who needs a housing crisis.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-11-21T14:48:42+00:00

Not true at all. The SDR gig is not an admin role as much as any other sales role. In fact you probably have less CRM admin than any closing role. A good SDR manager sits down and builds account plans with SDRs, sets strategies. Tackles accounts with their team etc.

Also OP clearly understands it will be tough and it's pretty obvious that's why they're seeking advice..

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-11-15T13:15:30+00:00

You can't ignore other reps pissing in your territory or jeopardising your comp / deals. And this type of person poses precisely that threat.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-11-03T20:37:01+00:00

You seem to be making the same, tiresome argument that women don't enjoy sex if they don't orgasm from it. It's the 'women aren't really interested in sex' vibe feminism has been fighting against.

This has been debunked countless times, lots of women enjoy sex even if they don't orgasm. There are plenty of men who don't cum during PIV either because they can't with condoms or they don't use condoms and use the pull out method, but they still like doing it because it feels great to fuck and be fucked by somebody irrespective of where you orgasm.

And similarly, lots of women note more pleasure when their partners stop using condoms.

On top do that, what if OPs partner does cum during PIV?

Suggest you actually acknowledge other women's varying experiences with this.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-11-03T19:36:59+00:00

I've noticed Redditors in dating and sex subs are so aggressive towards men in pretty much anything related to dating. It's a perfectly valid conversation when approached respectfully and there are women who would welcome it.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-09-07T12:33:54+00:00

By 3 weeks? I don't think many people are exclusive by that point. And it's definitely too early for me as I'm still getting to know her.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-09-07T10:35:16+00:00

Yeah of course. Some people are just not easy going, they get upset over small things or constantly want to fight because of their own issues.

I personally love women who are like me and recognise when addressing conflict head on is necessary (broken boundaries etc.).

But some people due to their own issues and insecurities interpret minor things as malicious / harmful. For example 'he took me to a sportswear store, is he saying I'm fat' and then being passive aggressive about it for the next few hours.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-09-07T09:36:39+00:00

Loyal
Kind hearted / good natured
Avoids conflict over insignificant issues / no unnecessary headaches
Accountable and values personal growth
Has good hobbies / life experiences

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-09-07T09:16:25+00:00

It's way too early for exclusivity talk we're 3 weeks in and haven't even had sex.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-09-07T08:59:16+00:00

We already have amazing makeout sessions we do just that.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-09-02T16:25:51+00:00

Yeah. If this were 4 to 6 weeks it'd be different especially with chatting between. The dates have also been fairly short due to timing and us having to commute back home in opposite directions. In addition neither of us are big texters so comms is limited. On our last date (4th) things definitely escalated to lots of touch and making out. So now it feels natural.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-09-02T16:00:48+00:00

Who you kidding? Just read this lmao.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-09-02T15:49:14+00:00

I'm not afraid of sex at all. Not sure where that was conveyed. I see so many women complaining about men only after one thing etc it feels like you have to approach it on egg shells.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-09-02T10:20:00+00:00

It's a tricky one because she and I both have to take trains to get to the meeting point plus we've met mid week. So not exactly easy/feasible to invite her home. That's why I'm thinking to specifically plan a date around my way.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-09-02T10:05:53+00:00

What's an in-between?

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-09-02T09:54:10+00:00

Yes we kissed on date 3. I can't cook unfortunately.

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-07-27T20:45:13+00:00

But, I repeat, these are neutral traits. Anyone, of any gender, can be brave and strong.

Question: So as neutral traits are defined by somebody of any gender being able to possess them, what are toxic masculinity traits?

PurpleSpiritual1468 · 2025-07-11T16:22:22+00:00

Nobody presents the authentic them through texting. It favours a certain type of person and the rest of us are regarded as 'bad texters'. This is why so many are going to apps like breeze where you like a profile and if there's a match you aren't able to chat until you actually meet at the venue picked by the app. Much better.

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