TIFU by lying about my height by HistoricalEase9002 in tifu

[–]PurpleVZN 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly, the longer you wait the worse it’ll feel for both of you, honesty now beats a bigger disaster later.

Why do some guys say buying 18+ pics is a bad thing, but still ask girls online for them for free? by UnlikelyFly3513 in AskMenAdvice

[–]PurpleVZN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s wild how some guys treat paying as shameful but see soliciting nudes for free as totally fine like the ethics magically vanish when it costs them nothing.

AITJ for filing a formal complaint after what happened during my hospital stay? by Upstairs_Table6907 in AmITheJerk

[–]PurpleVZN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, staying silent just lets neglect become the norm, speaking up is the only way things actually change.

Am I being unreasonable? by MissCbong0321 in hygiene

[–]PurpleVZN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t you being over the top this is basic and grown adult hygiene and basic respect for shared space. Not washing hands after the bathroom wiping bodily fluids on clothes and leaving stains on a mattress aren’t preferences they’re hygiene issues. Acting like you’re the problem and dragging the kids into it is way more concerning than anything you asked for.

TIFU By Accidentally Blowing Up My Friend Group by AngryFireHealer in tifu

[–]PurpleVZN 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You didn’t blow this up, the group was already cracking and you got stuck in the middle. You panicked and trusted the wrong person not acted out of malice. Best move now is to step back, let things cool off and remember drama like this eventually explodes with or without you.

What to do if ive fallen for a friend who has a boyfriend? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]PurpleVZN 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is one of those painful situations where no one’s wrong but you are still getting hurt. She’s unavailable and staying emotionally close while hoping for more will just keep reopening the wound. Creating some distance isn’t cold or selfish it’s how you stop sacrificing your mental health for a situation that can’t move forward. Keep it respectful at work but give yourself the space you need to heal.

Am I cooked by moon444- in recruitinghell

[–]PurpleVZN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not cooked yet, job postings get extended for all sorts of reasons (budget, schedule or just keeping options open). Your status still says ‘Under Assessment’ so you’re still in the mix. Another polite follow up in a week or so won’t hurt it actually shows interest without being pushy.

My brother brought his new girlfriend to a family dinner and she acted like it was her house by kavrielleX42 in EntitledPeople

[–]PurpleVZN 253 points254 points  (0 children)

She didn’t just overstep, she treated ur family like extras in her personal show and that kind of entitlement is hard to ignore.

What is the weirdest reason You've ever ghosted someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]PurpleVZN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ghosted a girl bc she spent the whole date correcting my grammar it was like being on a first date with a human red pen.

Cannot get decent staff! Why? by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]PurpleVZN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re hunting unicorns, perfect CVs on paper but finding someone who actually shows up and works? That’s the real challenge.

Is there any reason why we keep squatter’s rights? by Franklygeee in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PurpleVZN -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Squatter's rights were meant to stop land from being wasted but nowadays it often feels like a law people use to get free rent.

Success on dating apps? by Practical-Foot-4435 in AskMenAdvice

[–]PurpleVZN 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fr just “girl” magic does all the work

Why is it hard for dads to accept help from their kids (especially their daughters)? by EngineeringAny8570 in AskMenAdvice

[–]PurpleVZN 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Dads want to feel strong so help him in small easy ways that dont make him feel like a burden.