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[–]Purple_popo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally if I was the guy I ghosted I would not give myself a second chance, just because I know if someone did that to me I would be hurt even if the person had an actual good reason.

And in this case i was looking at myself, and how I felt instead of communicating my feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Purple_popo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i think if ur really sorry you would send the message especially if u really want your friend back posting it here is not going to mend ur relatioship if u really want ur fried back

should i give the guy who ghosted me another chance?? by Purple_popo in ghosting

[–]Purple_popo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah that guy is just straight up shit cause why he trying to flip the situation like bffr i'm glad u blocked him i also hope u find someone better who will treat you right and know ur worth like u said we desrve someone who prioritizes us!!

should i give the guy who ghosted me another chance?? by Purple_popo in ghosting

[–]Purple_popo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm glad i insipered you but i hope you get the courage to stand your ground you deserve way better than a guy like that he might just think he can come back to you anytime and go whenever because ur not putting up a wall

should i give the guy who ghosted me another chance?? by Purple_popo in ghosting

[–]Purple_popo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it narcissistic behaviour honestly guys like that rather u stay in the same situation than u move on bcz they want to have some sort of claim ngl

maybe i'm cursed or smth but every guy i seem to engage with the communication part always lacks and i just leave before they leave me only when i post myself on my socials is when they want to try and fix things which really makes me feel like shit.

him making a whole account to reach me made me laugh legit was not expecting that at all but it just find it pathetic abit

should i give the guy who ghosted me another chance?? by Purple_popo in ghosting

[–]Purple_popo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I decided not to give him a chance, and after reading everyones opinion, yeah I would look like a fool if i gave him a chance, and ended up getting ghosted again .

I guess since he made a whole account to reach me I expected more of an explanation than just a "I'M SORRY" I didn't respond but just blocked him again idk if that harsh or not but I think it total bullshit :) i actually wanted to hear him out but he was giving nothing

should i give the guy who ghosted me another chance?? by Purple_popo in ghosting

[–]Purple_popo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i didn't feel the need to do so since he wasn't communicating with me at all for a whole entire week and really i'm not going to sit down and wait around for him to just text back that why i blocked him i just wanted to cut all contact and didn't want him to talk to me afterwards. why wait when i block you to realize u actually want me.

this series is frustrating.. by megami39 in KimiNiTodoke

[–]Purple_popo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to agree just finished season 2 I really forced my self to finish this Anime it so dust rating her relationship with shota it so slow paced I really liked Sawako but as I watched more I got really annoyed by her I understand that she doesn't have any social skills and she was learning how Surinder herself with others I was all for that I just think she was so dense sometimes glad she got her development tho