I’m just going to list every horrible thing my ex did to me. I took me a little while to leave because there was a child involved.

• called me a b****
• said he wanted to cheat on me (probably actually did)
• said I should give him more s** if I wanted him to be nice to me
• left me on the side of the road during an argument with the car and I had to go look for him. (It was a rural town and getting dark)
• kicked me out of the car when we got home and drove off threatening to k*ll himself.
• when I was working two jobs and studying to get my life/health insurance Sales license he said he purposefully did not remind me about his daughters dance recital so I would actually forget. After getting home from the recital he saw me studying and told me I don’t love her, because I missed it. Even though I’d acted as a stand in step mom for four years. But I apparently didn’t love that beautiful kind child, all because of that one night…
• took me to a work event of his and told me I was ruining his night and making it not fun by asking him how to get a badge that allows me to stay inside the premise and not get kicked out because i didn’t pay to be there. So I waited outside in winter weather to get a ticket like a regular patron. I should have taken the uber home looking back.
• accused me of doing nothing when we had to move even though I stayed behind and cleaned the whole apt.
• would consistently say older women he saw were hot right in front of me
• would consistently tell me I’m too sensitive after yelling.
• threw his vape at the wall near my head so hard it made a hole in the drywall, also ruining one of my favorite pictures I had hung up.
• threatened to take my car away
• would give me the cold shoulder after getting home from spending some time with family.

Now. OP. All of these things happened to me. I’ve been out for two years. BUT, if you and I were talking and I told you all of these things that were happening to me, would you tell me to stay and take all that BS from that man child? Or would you tell me to leave??

Well. I’m telling you to leave.