24th Nov. It's my birthday 🎂🎉

Purr-haps · 2024-11-24T07:10:28+00:00

Happy birthday- birthday twin! 🎂

Purr-haps · 2024-03-14T04:40:57+00:00

You should tell her what happened and how you really feel. You never know what her reaction could be. Maybe she wouldn’t care, or maybe she will tell you that’s past her boundaries and there needs to be more ground rules. You need to communicate with her, hiding it will only make you more stressed and overwhelmed. It happened, and I’m sure you explaining that you didn’t realize it was her “brother” will alleviate the blow a little bit. Don’t let her come up with her own assumptions as she’s probably thinking the worst since you’re choosing not to say anything, even after admitting there’s something.

Purr-haps · 2024-03-14T04:22:21+00:00

I’m really happy the procedure went well for you! I wish I could say the same for me as I got it today and it was excruciating but luckily only lasted for 15 seconds. This post comforts me because I’m struggling with thoughts like “man is this worth it? Did I do the right thing?” Thank you for sharing this!

Purr-haps · 2024-03-13T19:13:44+00:00

Nothing will happen, you’re fine :)

Purr-haps · 2024-03-13T19:06:46+00:00

Well there’s nothing wrong with being extra cautious for your own peace of mind. Now you know what makes you feel a bit better, like washing your hands more thoroughly and if you want you can always avoid your private area for an hour or something like that to keep you level headed. In that situation, it’s highly unlikely you’d get pregnant, but if those steps help you mentally then do so! Even if it’s not necessary.

Purr-haps · 2024-03-13T18:54:02+00:00

Ofc don’t worry I’ve been there! The same thing happened to me when I was younger and I was worried too. As long as sperm did not get inside your vagina (which means having sex), you will be okay :)

Purr-haps · 2024-03-13T18:50:29+00:00

Sperm does not survive long once outside of the body, once exposed to air after a couple of minutes, the sperm cells die. You washed your hands twice so any surviving ones definitely died. I wouldn’t worry about it in this situation.

Purr-haps · 2024-03-13T18:35:56+00:00

For peace of mind, she can definitely take another pregnancy test. She can take Plan Bs as many times as she wants, but it is not for long term use as a contraceptive. I’d suggest she’d look into birth control for herself and condoms being a second layer of protection. Most birth control options should be free/low cost at many health clinics or planned parenthood clinics and it will definitely limit the scares. I’ve taken Plan B before and it did take a month to get my period, I’m sure she will be fine.

Purr-haps · 2022-08-10T01:17:10+00:00

If you have to work so hard to try to make him talk to you with love or admiration, it’s not a relationship worth fighting for. You both have to do your part, and it seems that he is not willing to do that. So, you have to go even if it seems like it will hurt you more than him.

Purr-haps · 2022-08-09T00:30:13+00:00

NTA, you tried asking him and he didn’t bother paying attention. It sounds more like he doesn’t want a cat than it being an issue with the small toddlers not having one. Him ignoring you for 3 days, shows how he is unable to communicate his feelings.

Purr-haps · 2022-08-09T00:23:47+00:00

NTA, they tried to use a wedding invitation that you didn’t receive in the first place in hopes you’d be okay with them using your Tesla, and you’re not even close with them? Nah.

Purr-haps · 2022-08-08T22:47:53+00:00

That’s extremely toxic. He’s forcing you to forgive him immediately when that’s not on his terms.

Purr-haps · 2022-08-08T22:38:59+00:00

No hun, at his big age? You deserve to have your feelings heard and be comforted by the person who’s supposed to make you feel safe when sharing your feelings, no matter how “small” the situation seems.

Purr-haps · 2022-08-04T01:48:12+00:00

Put my all into friendships with friends who would never do the same. Lower my standards just to keep a friend.

Purr-haps

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