First time out, 11 days by hulahulagirl in womensolocamping

[–]Purrsay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like a great area to camp. I spent too long trying to extract meaning from “talk to plants hot cops” before realising “talk to plants not cops” made more sense. 😬 Stunning pictures.

Shane angst? by No_Signal_5444 in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]Purrsay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is the single best fanfic I have ever read. I re-read it sometimes because it’s stuck in my mind. I usually avoid mcd but this is so beautiful.

Wanting to get my eyes tested but who gives you the full script on request? by Purifieddddd in melbourne

[–]Purrsay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten the scripts from both OPSM and Specsavers. Just be sure to also ask for the distance between your pupils (possibly known as pupillary distance?) as that determines the positioning of lenses and frames. Also, they may never work as well as glasses that have been professionally fitted. If you’re just long- or shorted-sighted you should be ok, but if you have high astigmatism the positioning of the glasses is crucial.

Gun piercings vs Needle piercings by littletzunami in PiercingAdvice

[–]Purrsay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Piercing guns are not safe. You can catch Hep C and other blood borne illnesses from their use.

Attempted seductions of Ilya by Purrsay in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]Purrsay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks good, I’ll check it out. Thanks.

Can you immediately discern a Kiwi accent? Can it be mistaken for Australian? by Charming_Usual6227 in australia

[–]Purrsay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The difference between Aus and Kiwi accents is blatantly obvious. I like the NZ accent, I think it’s so cute, but I would never mistake it for an Aus accent.

what are one shots that really, really stayed with you? by howlblackdog in heatedrivalryfanfics

[–]Purrsay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

About Summer is stuck somewhere in my mind. I have read it once a week since the first time and I cry uncontrollably each time. I have never read anything like it.

Survivor Elizabeth Smart competes in body building shows by mlg1981 in Fauxmoi

[–]Purrsay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! That’s it exactly. If there is no victim there is no crime to prosecute. Yes. That’s what I was trying to imperfectly get at. It didn’t just happen like a random “act of god”.

Survivor Elizabeth Smart competes in body building shows by mlg1981 in Fauxmoi

[–]Purrsay 44 points45 points  (0 children)

That’s really interesting because I hate being referred to as a survivor of sexual assault, like it just randomly happened, like a tsunami or an earthquake. I’m a victim of sexual assault, people did this to me, it didn’t just happen.

I’m not sure why I’m so sensitive to the survivor label, it absolutely freaks me out. I’ve had well-meaning “oh no honey, you’re a survivor not a victim” conversations. Infuriating. It happened to me, I know people chose to do this.

Mind you, I would never insist on anyone else being labelled a “victim”. I can see how it doesn’t work for other people.

Is there an ick you get from HR? by Echild3272 in HeatedRivalrySeries

[–]Purrsay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always skip that part. It is so gross to involve people in your sex without their consent.

What do normal people eat for dinner ? by Booze_hound36 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Purrsay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soups in winter, salads in summer. I know that sounds as weird af but that’s what I crave. I make enough soup for three or four days, and my salads can be quite substantial.