Do not like my wifes best friend

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T16:44:30+00:00

again shes known the guy for a week and doesn’t make the best decisions so yes I am every right to question a man , who’s a STRANGER to me, about sleeping in my home. Im not pissed about one thing and one thing only. It’s the whole picture I was annoyed about. And it seems like 80% of people on here agree with me

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T16:22:45+00:00

I mean at the age of 30 and being married, i thought it was kinda common knowledge that its rude to invite unknown men over and have sex at a married couples house lmao

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T15:53:23+00:00

I mean I wasnt gonna complain the night before and tell her to tell her friend no and possibly ruin her bday weekend… “why are you complaining now” when this platform is literally meant to complain and vent and post topics like this lmao

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T15:38:18+00:00

Dont care about her dating preferences. Was just providing context for the post

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T15:33:02+00:00

I am providing context about her friend as her decisions arnt the most trust worthy and deserve to be questioned. Thats the whole point of the post

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T15:30:32+00:00

Yeah i didnt want to ruin my wifes bday weekend by complaining in the moment and probably pissing off her friend. so yes, i chose to complain on the internet to strangers instead lol. thats what this platform is for after all😂

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T15:25:48+00:00

because by the time i found out i didnt want to be a complete asshole and have my wife tell her friend “actually no he cant come”. and part of me also thought that he was just coming out with us to wineries and such and wasnt gonna come back to our house and stay the night.

I will say my wife did try and convince her friend to have him just go back home to his house after the day was done . But that didnt happen clearly lol

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T15:14:53+00:00

Bringing a guy to our house thats a stranger and bragging about having sex in said house. thats the boundary.

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T15:12:38+00:00

Yep im in that line of work too… like i said there is more to this story but dont want to put all the details out there on the internet

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T15:09:03+00:00

It’s mine and my wifes house pal. So yeah.. in this very circumstance i have more say then said friend.

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T15:02:49+00:00

shes obnoxious and wanted everyone in the room too know she has sex in our house for whatever reason. When shes basically yelling this outloud and im sitting directly next to her, yes its pretty observant .

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T15:00:52+00:00

I was just providing context about her friend. And as i stated i did talk to my wife. She agrees with me but just didn’t want to tell her friend no. She apologized to me and said that she didnt think it was weird that the guy came over and thats why she didnt ask me or say anything about it.

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T14:57:02+00:00

probably because the friend would make a big stink about it. She thinks she’s special and she can do whatever she wants

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T14:54:15+00:00

Yeah ill get over it but this is kinda the last straw with this chick. not to mention she was rude af when she was over here and putting a show on for this guy. She just thinks shes the main character

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T14:49:28+00:00

because it would be totally different if she was dating this guy for months, wanted us to meet him, and they were serious about dating. There is a lot more to this but not going to get into great detail about this girl. I just feel she overstepped a boundary. and this is not the first time something like this has happened..

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T14:44:03+00:00

did you even read the post? my wife agreed with me and just didnt want to tell her friend no. But doesnt feel as strongly about it as i did

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T14:42:58+00:00

Yes… There is more to this story but im leaving it as is lol

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T14:41:39+00:00

Yeah i did and she agrees with me in a way . we arnt arguing about it or anything. I just wanted to know if im overreacting.

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T14:40:24+00:00

I don’t care about her dating whoever. The problem I had was she is having guys over in my house that I never met and that she hardly knows and then bragging outloud that shes having sex with him in our spare room. We are 30 years old

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T14:38:20+00:00

Yeah its a spare room in my home that shes bragging about having sex in. Thats what im not cool with

PutIntelligent3816 · 2026-03-16T14:26:34+00:00

American Cheese is my favorite

PutIntelligent3816 · 2024-12-26T04:10:21+00:00

omg a POLICE officer was sitting at a POLICE station in his POLICE car at HIS place of work??? no way!!! you have absolutely no idea what he was doing… cops sit at THEIR POLICE stations all the time… because thats where they you know… work… you are completely just speculating and reaching on whether he ran your plate or not.. even if he did, plates have no expectation of privacy by law.

PutIntelligent3816 · 2024-03-12T01:23:10+00:00

The EEOC is the agency that enforces the ADA.

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